Hashem spoke to Moshe, saying, “Take revenge for the Bnei Yisrael
against the Midianites….”Moshe spoke to the people, saying, “Arm men from
among yourselves…to inflict Hashem’s vengeance upon Midian.”
Don’t Touch the Children1
Be’er Mayim Chaim: The contradiction in these pesukim is apparent, and has
attracted the attention of many commentators. Whose vengeance was it, after
all? Who was the injured party, so to speak? Was it the Bnei Yisrael who
needed to avenge the deaths of those who died as a consequence of the
Midianite plot at Baal Pe’or, or was it Hashem’s honor that was impugned,
and had to be restored?
Here are my thoughts. We note that from time immemorial, other nations have
chafed at the claim of Jewish specialness, and sought ways to undo it. They
have tried to disrupt the connection between Yisrael and the Torah with its
mitzvos, something that would make our people no different than all other
peoples. Persecutions and bans against observance attempted to interfere
with the closeness between Hashem and His people. (Lurking behind this was a
consequence of the relationship with Am Yisrael that they stubbornly
resisted. If the selection of Yisrael was connected to His giving us Torah
and mitzvos, then in some way their own fortunes were dependant upon the
behavior of this strange people and their observance of the Torah. This was
intolerable to them; they worked assiduously to reverse the dependency, and
make the Jewish people subservient to and dependant upon them, rather than
the other way around.) They sought to do this by making observance
difficult, if not impossible. If the Jews would not observe, then they would
be discarded by G-d, and the nations could ignore them.
The strategy, if not the thinking itself, was fatally flawed. A mashal will
A servant of the king gained his favor through his musical ability. He was
able to soothe the king’s spirits, and the king became dependant upon him,
and drew him close to him.
Other servants became jealous of this bond. One of them grabbed the
musician, and maimed his arm, ending his ability to play. The king treated
this, of course, as a major crime. He did not, however, treat it as an
eternal crime. In time, the king replaced the injured musician with another.
The original musician, no longer able to serve the king in any meaningful
way, was forgotten by the king as the years past.
Imagine, however, if the musician were also the king’s son. The son
frequently performed before his father, to his great delight. A minister,
jealous of the closeness, seized the prince and maimed him, in an attempt to
end the king’s closeness with the son and leave a void that he could fill in
the son’s stead.
The strategy would be a complete error. The love of the father for his son
would not diminish; the king’s anger would know no bounds.
So it is with the Jewish people. Were we simply servants of G-d and not His
children, the attempts of other peoples to shunt us aside, to replace us in
His favor, would not be quite as terrible as they are. In fact, though, He
does regard us as His children. (This is the real intent of the phrase “Bnei
Yisrael.” All of Yisrael are His children.)
The Midianites made this mistake. They understood that G-d detests
licentious behavior. They were willing to disgrace their daughters to entrap
the Bnei Yisrael in behavior that would compromise the relationship between
themselves and HKBH. Ensnaring the Jews in sin is the analogue to maiming
the hand of the musician-servant.
Midian did not count on a different relationship between Hashem and the Bnei
Yisrael – one of Father and children. Thus, “Take vengeance for the Bnei
Yisrael,” underscoring the word bnei/ children. Because of this
relationship, such vengeance is at the same time “Hashem’s vengeance.”
Hurting His children is, kivayachol, a way of hurting Him. It follows that
their vengeance is also His vengeance.
“O G-d of vengeance, Hashem; O G-d of vengeance, appear.”2
Vengeance appears twice here, corresponding to the two types we have spoken
of: our vengeance and His. When He appears on the scene to avenge some
slight to His people, He is also a G-d of vengeance a second time,
reciprocating against the pain to Himself.
1. Based on Be’er Mayim Chaim, Bamidbar 31:2
2. Tehillim 94:1
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