Vayigash
By Rabbi Heshy Grossman
Plagued by famine, Ya'akov Avinu sends his sons down to Egypt to
purchase the food they need for survival. Yosef HaTzaddik, who in the
interim has become the ruler of Eretz Mitzraim, immediately recognizes the
ten brothers who sold him into slavery.
"....and the brothers of Yosef came before him, and they bowed before him,
their faces to the ground......and Yosef remembered the dreams that he
dreamt regarding them, and said to them: you are spies who have come to
uncover the land." (Breishis 42: 6-9)
"......when Yosef saw his brothers bowing to him, he recalled the dreams
...and knew that neither of them had been fulfilled, for the resolution of
the first dream was that all his brothers would bow before him at
once....since Binyamin was not with them, he devised a scheme to accuse
them, so that they would bring Binyamin back with them, to fulfill the
first dream."
"For this reason, he did not tell them: 'I am Yosef, your brother', and to
send them quickly with wagons for his father, as he later does, and his
father would undoubtedly come....If not for this [explanation], Yosef would
be committing a great sin by causing his father great pain, along with
years of suffering and mourning for his own loss, and that of Shimon. Even
if he wished to cause his brothers pain, why didn't he have mercy for his
elderly father?"
"Rather, everything he did was at its proper time, in order to fulfill the
dreams, which he knew would certainly come true." (Ramban, ad. loc.)
The Ramban teaches that the plan of Yosef was not haphazard, nor was it an
attempt to take revenge against his brothers. Still, it remains to be
understood by what authority could Yosef ignore a Torah command? Was he not
obligated in Kibbud Av? Certainly, one may not violate a Mitzva on the
basis of dreams and visions.
In our shiur this week we will explain Yosef's actions, and demonstrate how
his deeds were nothing less than the salvation of Klal Yisrael, a portent
of the coming redemption.
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Yosef understood that the original dreams were a form of prophecy, and as
such, they could not be defied. Though modern-day dreams may mostly be of
little significance, the visions of our forefathers, in contrast, were
Divine messages with implications for the future, a destiny that would
certainly come true.
Yosef recognizes that the future of Klal Yisrael will be achieved only
through the twelve sons of Yaakov. Further, he knows that this goal demands
perfect unity, with each element of the nation working in harmony towards a
common objective. If the brothers were to never admit the error of their
original plot, this unification would never be achieved, and therefore
Yosef devises a plan to bring about their repentance. Were he to reveal
himself too soon, though the brothers would undoubtedly accept him back, a
complete reconciliation would never be realized. For Yosef to be accepted
by the others as a leader of the nation, the dispute between the brothers
must be totally resolved, not merely shelved for the sake of an interim
agreement.
Let us study how this unfolds.
"And he raised his voice, crying.....and Yosef said to his brothers: I am
Yosef, can my father still be alive? And his brothers could not answer him,
for they were frightened before him." (Breishis 45:3) - "Woe to us on the
day of judgment, woe to us on the day of rebuke. Yosef was the smallest of
the Shevatim, yet, his brothers could not stand before his rebuke, as it's
written, 'And his brothers could not answer him...'. When G-d will come to
rebuke each individual according to what he is, as is said, 'I will rebuke
you and arrange it before your eyes' (Tehillim 50:21), how much more so
[will we have no answer]. (Breishis Rabbah 93:10)
This is puzzling. Chazal cite these words as the prime example of an
effective rebuke, but where is the criticism in Yosef's message to his
brothers? He barely says anything at all!
On the contrary. Our Sages are teaching us the lesson of true Tochacha.
The most common usage of Tochacha is rebuke, as in: "Hocheach Tochiach
Es Amisecha" - "You shall surely rebuke your fellow." (Vayikra 19:17) But
in another context, Tochacha is translated as proof. For instance - "Sim
Koh Neged Achai V'Achecha V'Yochichu Bein Shneinu" - "Place them here
before my brothers and yours', and let them clarify between us." (Breishis
31:37)
Because no one word in Lashon HaKodesh has conflicting interpretations,
these two meanings must share a common theme, which is this: One cannot
accept rebuke unless he is certain of his mistake. In other words: to mend
his ways, he must be proven wrong.
"Said Rabbi Elazar ben Azariah: I would be amazed to find someone in this
generation who knows how to provide rebuke." (Erechin 16b)
Is it possible to give rebuke? To prove moral ideas to a doubting
individual? If one is convinced of the validity of his own opinion, will a
superior argument sway his firmly held belief? Individuals can present only
their own way of thinking, but nothing guarantees that his disputant will
accept this argument, right though they may be.
People are certain only of ideas they have personally experienced to be
true. Only when his own life validates the message, or where the given
concept is consistent with his own beliefs, will one be forced to accept
another's rebuke.
Yehuda approaches Yosef, begging for the release of the imprisoned
Binyamin:
"And now, when I come before your servant, my father, and the lad is not
with us, whose soul is as dear to him as his own....and when he'll see that
the lad is not [there], he will die....for how can I go up to my father if
the lad is not with me, perhaps I will witness the suffering that will stab
my father." (Breishis 44)
And Yosef responds:
"Ani Yosef, HaOd Avi Chai?!?" - "I am Yosef, can my father still be alive?"
What's that you say? You mean, you're worried about your father? Yes,
your poor father! You don't want to cause him any suffering, correct? You
would never do anything to bring harm to your honored father, right?
But, I am Yosef. And where were you then?!?
Silence.
Yosef's brilliant scheme achieves its goal. Suddenly, the brothers are
forced to recognize their mistake. Yehuda, who has been out-maneuvered into
expressing his personal concern for Binyamin's welfare, trips over his own
words.
He could never cause his father pain.
It dawns upon him that his actions don't match his words.
He has been rebuked. Proven wrong.
It is not the words of another that reveal the light. There is no attempt
to have him accept another's opinion. He faces up to the reality of his
words, and has no choice but to admit the fallacy of his ways.
He has no other option.
There is only one truth.
Here lies the secret of the future redemption.
Let us explain.
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"And it was at the end of two years - 'an end was given to darkness' (Iyov
28:3) - The world was given a designated period, the duration of years it
would remain in darkness....Another explanation: a certain period was given
to Yosef, the years of darkness in jail, and when the end arrived Phaaroh
dreamed his dream." (Breishis Rabbah 89:1)
For generations, an argument raged between the world's philosophers and the
sages of Torah. While the empiric evidence indicated that darkness was
merely the absence of light, rabbinic scholars insisted that darkness was
itself an independent creation, with the original light of Breishis
concealed underneath.
This dispute is not merely theoretical, for each position reflects a
particular worldview. The secular approach originates with Greek wisdom,
those who believed only in what their senses could measure. Unable to
fathom a dimension that was completely metaphysical, they perceived the
entire world to be within their grasp. Reality was defined as the expanse
of the physical universe. Because this world defines the totality of man's
existence, it is held to be an embodiment of all creation. Just as G-d is
eternal, so too, the earth, and hence, the heretical concept of 'HaOlam
Kadmon' - the world as omnipresent. Whatever is - was and always will be.
Klal Yisrael, on the other hand, perceives this world as a mere creation.
Time, space, and all of the elements are temporal constructs that hint at a
deeper existence. Destined to partake of a higher truth, the Jew has never
been able to attach himself to Olam HaZeh, nor take it too seriously, and
he certainly has never related to this world as an immutable reality.
This world is darkness - a mere creation.
As the darkness, which merely delays the coming dawn, so too, the
redemption of the Jewish people hides beneath the surface, a dream that
must be revealed.
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In the modern era, despite the turmoil of recent times, we are witness to a
certain consistency in the pattern of Divine Providence.
G-d does not interfere in the efforts of mortal man, indeed, man has been
given the freedom to pursue his every dream.
Unfortunately, though this independence has made our communities more
prosperous, our homes and families are less secure than ever before. The
achievements of the industrial age have not produced a happier and
healthier existence. Visions that inspired millions in the past century
have been discarded by a disillusioned public, and in fact, some of
society's greatest difficulties are a direct consequence of our supposed
'progress'.
In light of the tragedies of the past year, it is sobering, for example, to
reflect upon the herculean efforts to build a Jewish homeland in Eretz
Yisrael. In the early part of the twentieth century, opposition to the
Zionist movement focused on the lingering problem of the resident Arab
population. The secular response to this issue is well documented: "No
reason to worry about the Arabs", they proclaimed, a bit too hastily. Too
confident in the strength of their own hands, and too complacent about
their destiny, they could not foresee the present quagmire.
Events in Israel have evolved precisely as the leadership had planned. The
State has flourished in many different ways; more successful than the
founders had hoped. But still, we look around in desperation, with no place
left to run.
Perhaps, we can formulate our message thus:
Hashem allows man to walk wherever he pleases, and at times, He even helps
him along. And so man proceeds. Until one day, he finds himself standing at
the edge of a cliff, with a sharp drop looming below.
Only then does he realize the futility of his efforts.
Nothing is certain other than the Dvar Hashem.
Even more, he learns this lesson on his own. His very words and actions
seal his own fate.
This is his Tochacha.
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Yosef knew how to interpret dreams.
He understood the Divine message, and recognized that the Dvar Hashem would
be fulfilled, no matter what.
The future of the Jewish people hung in the balance, waiting for his
brothers to reach the same conclusion, exactly as Yosef planned.
All other calculations, admirable as they may be, are only temporary
patchwork, with faultlines that are destined to appear. Man's most valiant
efforts leave him groping in the darkness, searching for the hidden salvation.
Yosef understands that "Ketz Sam L'Choshech" - darkness is a mere creation,
a veil which must be lifted.
He brings all his brothers down to exile, deep into the darkness, knowing
full well that Yaakov will shortly follow. But he knows too that the long,
dark night will someday be illuminated by the light of G-d's Word, the
beacon that heralds the coming dawn.
Have a good Shabbos.
JerusalemViews, Copyright (c) 2001 by Rabbi Heshy Grossman and Project
Genesis, Inc.
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