I am uncomfortable going to sleep before the Chanukah lights burn out.
How long do they need to burn? May I extinguish them before going to bed?
Once the candles remained lit for at least one-half-hour after nightfall,
one has fulfilled the mitzvah. It is then permitted to extinguish the
candles. The leftover oil which was placed in the menorah should be used for
next day’s lighting. Leftover oil from the last day should be burned in a
manner where one does not derive benefit from it.
Is it permissible to read by the light of the candles if we have lit the
No, you may not read by the collective light of all of the candles even if
the shamash is lit. It is, however, permitted to use the shamash itself for
personal use, e.g., to light the pilot light on your stove.
May I, a single mother, make the bracha on the Chanukah candles and be
motzi my fifteen-year-old son? Is it preferable that he, instead, make the
bracha and be motzi me?
The preferred method is that both of you should light and recite the
blessings. If, however, only one person can or will light, then it is
preferable that your son light and be motzi you with your obligation.
My husband comes home very late from work and we usually light candles
when he comes home. Are the children and I permitted to eat before candle
lighting in this case? Alternatively, may I light candles with the children
on my own or is it preferable to wait for my husband to light?
If your husband truly does not mind, then the preferable for way is for you
and the children to light the candles on your own at the proper time, and
your husband will light when he comes home after work. If your husband
insists that no lighting take place before he arrives, children under the
age of bar and bas mitzvah may eat supper at their regular time of eating.
Adults should preferably eat foods whose berachah rishonah is shehakol,
ha-eitz or ha-adamah, or less than 2 oz. of bread or mezonos foods. If that
proves difficult, they should ask a friend to remind them that they did not
yet fulfill the mitzvah of lighting Chanukah candles. Once they have
appointed a shomer, they may eat as they usually do.
My husband learns in Kollel and is able to come home to light the candles
at the proper time. Since I work full time for a difficult boss, I am not
always able to be home for the proper time of lighting the candles. Although
my husband always offers to wait for me so that I could be present for the
lighting, I nevertheless feel guilty that I am causing him to delay the
mitzvah past its preferred time. How should I respond to his offer?
It depends on your true feelings. If your sincere wish is for your husband
to light on time and you would bear absolutely no resentment that you are
not present for the lighting, then it is preferable that he lights on time;
you are yotzei your obligation even though you are not home at the time of
lighting. But if this arrangement would lead to some resentment on your
part, then you should take up your husband’s offer to wait for your arrival.
Is there a basis in halacha or mesorah for giving gifts on Chanukah or is
this practice discouraged?
Chanukah gelt, distributing money to the children or to the needy, is an
age-old tradition which has a mesorah and valid sources. We do not, however,
find any source for giving out Chanukah gifts, and most probably it is a
custom copied from other religions.
Because I am totally overwhelmed with taking care of my children, I find
it difficult to daven Shacharis but I do try to daven Mincha. On Chanukah,
may I daven Hallel right before Mincha even though it is already late
Yes, you may. Hallel may be recited anytime during the day – from sunrise
until sunset. While Hallel is considered a mitzvah which is time bound from
which women are generally exempt, some opinions maintain that they are
obligated to recite Hallel on Chanukah, since they too were included in the
miracles of Chanukah.
I have heard that there is a minhag to serve dairy foods on Chanukah, in
addition to fried foods. Can you explain the source for this custom?
While there is no specific custom to eat just any type of dairy, there is a
custom to eat cheese on Chanukah. The reason for this custom is to recall
the miracle which occurred with cheese – which Yehudis, the daughter of
Yochanan the Kohein Gadol, fed to the Greek governor until he was very
thirsty. She then fed him wine until he was drunk and fell into a deep
sleep. She then proceeded to cut off his head and brought it to
Yerushalayim. When the Greeks saw that their leader was dead, they fled.
Weekly-Halacha, Text Copyright © 2012 by Rabbi Neustadt, Dr. Jeffrey Gross and Torah.org.
Rabbi Neustadt is the Yoshev Rosh of the Vaad Harabbonim of Detroit and the Av Beis Din of the Beis Din Tzedek of Detroit. He could be reached at firstname.lastname@example.org