Kinder and Gentler Killers
Volume 2 Issue 40
by Rabbi Mordechai Kamenetzky
This week we read about the cities of refuge. A man who kills someone
accidentally is exiled to an Ir Miklat, a city of refuge. In additions to
killers, a very distinguished group of people, the Levites, lived in those
cities. Their job was something similar to today's Rabbis. They traveled
throughout Israel, teaching and preaching. The Levites would return to
their homes and neighbors, people who killed through carelessness, who were
convianslaughter of sorts. They played an integral
role in the killer's rehabilitation.
The sentence imposed on the killers was also very unique. It was not
defined by time, but rather by circumstance. The killers would go free only
when the Kohen Gadol (High Priest) would die. The Talmud in Makos tells us
that the Kohen Gadol's family members were quite worried. They were not
concerned that there would be an assassination plot against the Kohen
Gadol's life. They were worried that the convicts would pray that the Kohen
Gadol would die before his due time, thus releasing them early. In order
to dissuade them, the mother of the Kohen Gadol would distribute food and
clothing to the inmates to deter them from praying that her son die.
It is hard to understand. Are there no loved ones waiting for these
outcasts with food and clothing to be offered upon release? Were the Kohen
Gadol's mom's cookies worth exile in the city of refuge? How did these
gifts work as bribes?
Reb Aryeh Levine took it upon himself to visit Jewish inmates, mostly
members of the Irgun, held under British rule prior to Israel's statehood.
He became like a father to those prisoners, bringing them food, clothes and
love. For years, despite sweltering heat and frigid rains, he never missed
a Shabbos visit, save one.
Once, in the midst of a Shabbos service, a very excited messenger called
him out of the prison. Reb Aryeh's daughter had become paralyzed and the
doctors were helpless. He was needed for support at home, immediately.
After the Shabbos, an Arab messenger was sent by the concerned inmates to
inquire what tragedy interrupted the weekly visit.
The next Shabbos, despite the enduring tragedy at home, the Rabbi went to
the prison as usual. Normally during the Torah reading, prisoners would
pledge a few coins to charity. This week the donations were far different.
"I will give up a week of my life for the sake of Reb Aryeh's daughter,"
the first convict pledged. Another prisoner announced that he would give a
month from his. Each one called to the Torah upped the previous pledge
until the last prisoner cried out, "what is our life compared to Reb
Aryeh's anguish? I will give all my remaining days for the sake of the
At this unbelievable display of love and affection, Reb Aryeh broke down
Miraculous as it may sound, that Saturday night Reb Aryeh's daughter began
to move and within days was fully recovered.
The cities of refuge were not jails, nor were they mere detention camps.
They were environments in which reckless people became aware that careless
actions have serious ramifications. They were constantly under the
influence of their neighbors, the Levites. They would observe them pray,
learn, and teach others. They would see the epitome of awareness and care
for fellow beings.
The mission of the Kohen Gadol's mother was not just to distribute food. It
was to develop a bond with those people whose carelessness spurred a death.
They saw the love a parent had for her son as she subconsciously plead with
the inmates to spare her child. They saw how a total stranger, despite her
great esteem, would make sure that their needs in the city of refuge were
cared for. They may have even thought of the loved one they killed and his
After developing an awareness of life, they would never be able to pray for
the death of anyone, even if it meant their own freedom. In fact, they,
like Reb Aryeh's prisoners, may have offered their years for the merit of
the Kohen Gadol.
The Torah can not punish without teaching and rehabilitating. It infuses a
love for life and spirituality into former careless killers. Its goal is to
mold a new person whose attitudes will cause him to be kinder, gentler, and
a lot more careful.
The story was adapted from A Tzadik in Our Time, by Simcha Raz, (c) 1976
Copyright © 1997 by Rabbi M. Kamenetzky and Project Genesis, Inc.
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