Parshas Bamidbar
Fruitful Living
By Rabbi Label Lam
And these are the generations of Aaron and Moshe on the day that HASHEM
spoke to Moshe at Mount Sinai. And these are the names of the children of
Aaron. The first born Nadav, and Avihu, Elazar and Ithamar.(Bamidbar
3:1-2)
These are the generations of Aaron and Moshe: It only mentions the
children of Aaron and they are called the generations of Moshe because he
taught them Torah. We learn that whoever teaches the son of his friend
Torah the verse considers as if he actually bore him. (Rashi)
Our sages tell us in Tractate Shabbos (31A) that one of the six questions
a person is asked after 120 years is “Were you busy with being fruitful
and multiplying?” What is expected of us? Is it a straight numerical
question? How many children? The Maharal says that this question is a
test to determine if the person was “self” or “other”- oriented. With a
little research we can find multiple ways to being fruitful.
1) We see that Aaron’s children are credited also to Moshe because he
taught them Torah. This too is a credible approach to being productive if
not prolific, as the Mishne in Avos mandates, “Stand up many students!”
2) The Bnei Yisaschar, Rabbi Tvi Elimelech from Dinav says the following
about the Mitzvah of being fruitful and multiplying: “To be fruitful and
multiply in Torah, to continually give birth to new Torah insights. And
with this he will be able to fulfill the Mitzvah at each moment and at all
times. This is the main way of being fruitful and multiplying, only that
HASHEM, commanded us also to give birth to physical children.”
3) The Chofetz Chaim writes in Shem Olam, “The entirety of a person’s life
he is engaged in a war with the negative inclination… and the children
that a person bears and brings to service of HASHEM are compared to arrows
as it says in Tehillim (127:4) “Like arrows in the hand of a strong man so
are young children.” They help in the actual war to achieve victory. And
the victory is ultimately credited to him because of the known concept; “a
child can bring merits to a father”. Now what if a person doesn’t have
arrows of his own? It makes sense that he should acquire with his money
arrows of others for serving HASHEM, and his victory in the battle will
certainly be credited to him as well because he is like a soldier battling
with another’s arrows. In many ways these arrows may be superior even to
one’s own…because the bow and the arrows that he possesses for battle are
sometimes are not so effective. However he can search for better arrows,
because in this world one can always find quality arrows.”
Rabbi Freifeld ztl. had recounted a story about an elderly women on an
austere budget that realized that she could save a few hundred dollars
each month by being a little more frugal. She approached a Rabbi and asked
if he would seek out a worthy Talmud scholar in Israel to whom she could
lend support. Even a meager sum could do much more in those days. A match
was found and for the duration of her latter- years the father of a family
was able to dedicate himself to learning because of her stipend. He became
a prominent scholar and raised a large family with children who themselves
became scholars and teachers of Torah. For sure her tiny investment in
fertile fields yields today a fruitful living.
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