Your Yetzer Hara!
By Rabbi Label Lam
And Yaakov remained alone and a man wrestled with him until the break of
dawn. And he saw that he could not defeat him so he grabbed him in the
hollow of his thigh and he dislocated the hollow of Yaakov’s thigh with his
wrestling with him. And he said, “Send me because the dawn has broken.”
Because the dawn has broken: I must go sing Shira; Song by day! (Rashi)
How odd that Yaakov’s opponent- the “Yetzer Hara”- needs to go and sing in a
celestial choir by day! Can it be he has a wholesome day job?
The following is excerpted, with permission of Mr. Avi Shulman, from his
book “Thoughts to Build On”. It is written in the persona of the Yetzer Hara
by an older brother for his struggling younger brother:
To my star pupil,
I am writing this letter to let you know what I think of you. Up here in
Heaven things are not like they are down on earth. There, people only know
what they can see. If they see a person who is “successful”, they think that
he is the greatest guy. When they see somebody struggling, they think `he
might be one of the weaker elements. Let me tell you something. HASHEM gives
every person certain abilities that nobody knows about down there where you
live. Some people are capable of tremendous things while others were put
there for much smaller purposes. Only HASHEM in His infinite wisdom is able
to give every person exactly what he needs to reach his potential. The
problem is that in your world, people sometimes become so comfortable with
their small successes that they don’t try hard enough to reach the plateau
that HASHEM knows they were created to reach.
That is where I come in. My job is to make sure that they succeed in
reaching their true potential. I am very misunderstood. Most people hate me,
and I don’t really blame them. Most people think that my job is to make sure
they fail in all aspects of Mitzvos, and that I rejoice every time they sin.
This is the farthest thing from the truth. Did you ever watch a boxing coach
train a beginner? It is a really funny sight. The coach will put on gloves
to fight against the student. At first, he won’t hit his hardest or throw
his best punches. But as the student gets better and better, the coach will
fight harder and harder. He does this so the student will improve his skills
and become the best boxer he can be…when the coach has thrown everything he
has at his student, and not only does the guy withstand the beating, but he
knocks the coach down, nobody in the world is happier than the coach.
…Sometimes my job is very disappointing. I see a person with a lot of
potential, and I start right in on him. He fights back for a while, but when
the fight gets too tough, he quits, and just remains on whatever level he
was on. (And he usually ends up going down!) I feel like yelling at him,
“Get up, you fool! Have you any idea how much more you could be
accomplishing!?” But I am not allowed to do so. I just leave him alone and
go find another promising candidate. If I have chosen you to be the target
of my most fierce battles, it was not for no reason! You have tremendous
…I am writing to you now because I have a very serious request to ask of
you. Please don’t stop fighting! Don’t’ give up! I have been beating too
many people lately, and I am losing patience. Believe in yourself, because I
would not be involved with you as much as I am if I didn’t think you could
beat me. Know what your strengths are! A great Rabbi once said, “Woe to he
who does not know his weaknesses. But oy vavoy to he who does not know his
strengths- for he will not have with which to fight.”
Always remember one thing: You have a secret weapon at your disposal. I
shouldn’t really be telling you- but I will anyway. HASHEM Himself is
watching our “training” sessions very closely. I am pleased to inform you
that He’s rooting for you! If things should ever get tough, too tough to
bear, just call out to Him with a prayer, and He will immediately come to
your aid. I wish you the best of luck, and I hope that after 120 years when
your time is up in that world of falsehood, you will come up here to the
World of Truth, where I will be waiting for you with open arms, to
congratulate you on your victory, and I will personally escort you to your
place next to the Kisei HaKavod.
Sincerely and with great admiration, I remain,
Your Yetzer Hara!
DvarTorah, Copyright © 2007 by Rabbi Label Lam and Torah.org.