Parshas Vayera
Religious Coercion
Volume 20, No. 4
17 Cheshvan 5766
November 19, 2005
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Today's Learning:
Eruvin 3:7-8
O.C. 459:4-6
Daf Yomi (Bavli): Eruvin 45
Daf Yomi (Yerushalmi): Berachot 47
The Midrash relates that after Avraham would feed the guests who
passed his way, he would say, "Now thank G-d whose food you have
eaten." If the guest refused, Avraham would say, "Then pay me! The
wine costs such-and-such, the meat costs such-and-such, the bread
costs such-and-such. Who would give you wine in the desert? Who
would give you meat in the desert? Who would give you bread in the
desert?" At that point, Avraham's guests would agree to thank G-d.
The commentaries ask: Why did Avraham do this? Of what value is
a blessing which is extracted under financial duress? R' Yitzchak Or
Zarua z"l (13th century) answers that Avraham did not actually ask his
guests for money. Rather he argued, "Think how much you would be
willing to pay for food and drink in the desert. Behold! G-d has
prepared that food and drink for you by causing me to be here in your
time of need. Moreover, it's all free. You would have been willing
to pay a small fortune had I requested it, but I ask you for nothing
for myself."
Upon realizing that G-d indeed looks out for each person's needs,
Avraham's guests would willingly thank G-d for their food, the Or
Zarua explains.
R' Moshe Zuriel shlita (former mashgiach of Yeshivat Shaalvim)
adds: At first glance, the above Midrash appears to say that Avraham
practiced "kefiah datit" / forcing others to observe halachah against
their will. However, the Or Zarua's explanation reveals that the
opposite is true. Avraham caused people to serve Hashem by showing
them how Hashem cares for every human and by demonstrating the beauty
of serving the One G-d. (Otzrot Hatorah Vol. I. p.54)
"Hashem appeared to him [Avraham] in the plains of Mamre
while he was sitting at the entrance of the tent in the heat
of the day." (18:1)
The Midrash explains that Hashem appeared to Avraham to visit the
sick, for it was the third day after Avraham's circumcision and he was
in pain.
The Gemara says that Avraham had a gem that hung at his throat,
and anyone who looked at it was healed from any injuries he had
suffered. When Avraham passed away, Hashem hung that gem from the
sun. If so, asks R' Bezalel Darshan z"l (Poland; 16th century), why
was Avraham still in pain three days after his circumcision? Why
didn't he just look at the stone that hung around his neck?
R' Bezalel explains: Avraham did not literally have a gem hanging
on a necklace. Rather, the Gemara means that Avraham's throat, i.e.,
his voice, spoke "gems" of truth about G-d that cured idolators of
their spiritual ills. After Avraham died, that gem was hung from the
sun, meaning that a person who wished to find G-d could do so through
an intensive study of nature, represented by the sun in the Gemara's
statement.
In this light, says R' Bezalel, we can understand another Midrash
which emphasizes that Avraham was sitting at the entrance to his tent
in order to "open a door" through which travelers and converts could
enter the service of the One G-d. The Midrash means to answer the
same question we asked above, i.e., why didn't Avraham look at his gem
and heal himself? The answer is that Avraham did not have a real gem.
Rather, the gem referred to was his voice, which he used to "open
doors" for converts, and the healing referred to was spiritual
healing.
(Amudehah Shivah)
"Hashem said, `Because the outcry of Sdom and Amorrah has
become great, and because their sin has been very grave. I
will descend and see . . ." (18:20-21)
"Avraham came forward and said, `Will You also stamp out the
righteous along with the wicked?'" (18:23)
Why did Avraham think he had the right to speak to Hashem this
way? R' Shimon Schwab z"l explains: Very often, we do not understand
Hashem's actions or His plan. However, when the Torah uses words such
as "I will descend," Hashem is saying that He will descend to man's
level, i.e., He will act in a way that mankind can understand. This
fact gave Avraham the right to question.
(Selected Speeches p.35)
"On the third day, Avraham raised his eyes and perceived the
place from afar. Avraham said to his young men, `Stay here
by yourselves with the donkey, while I and the lad will go
until there; we will worship and we will return to you.' . .
. Then Yitzchak spoke to Avraham, his father, and said,
`Father . . . Here are the fire and the wood, but where is
the lamb for the offering?'" (22:4-7)
Why did Yitzchak wait until the third day to ask where the sheep
for an offering was? R' Yechezkel Abramsky z"l (rabbi in Poland and
London and rosh yeshiva in Israel; author of Chazon Yechezkel; died
1976) once said, "I learned from here that before one asks a question,
he should look around to see if there are people there whose presence
might discourage candor. Yitzchak did not ask his question before the
third day because he suspected that Avraham might not speak freely in
the presence of Yishmael and Eliezer who accompanied them.
(Quoted in Peninei Rabbeinu Yechezkel)
The Mishnah in Pirkei Avot (chapter 5) teaches: "Avraham Avinu
was tested ten times, and he withstood them all." Many commentaries
ask: Why is Avraham referred to as "Avinu" / "our father" in this
mishnah, whereas he is not given that title in the previous mishnah
which also mentions his name?
R' Moshe Zaturensky z"l (19th century Lithuania) explains: The
last of Avraham's tests (according to most commentaries) was the
Akeidah / Binding of Yitzchak. Our Sages highlight the fact that
Avraham reasonably could have asked Hashem, "Previously You told me
(21:12), `For through Yitzchak will offspring be considered yours'!
Now, You are telling me to offer him as a sacrifice?" In other words,
it was precisely the fact that Avraham was destined to be "Avinu" /
"our father," whereas sacrificing Yitzchak would have eliminated that
possibility, that made the Akeidah was such a difficult test.
On a simpler level, the Akeidah was a difficult test because it
asked Avraham to do something that was contrary to his paternal
instincts. For both of these reasons, he is given the title "Avinu" /
"our father" in this context.
(Darkei Moshe Al Pirkei Avot)
R' Yehuda Zvi Eichenstein z"l
R' Yehuda Zvi Eichenstein, the rabbi and chassidic rebbe of
Rozdol, was born in 1791. He was the son of R' Moshe of Sambor and
was the son-in-law and successor of R' Zvi Hirsch of Zidachov.
R' Eichenstein was considered one of the leading kabbalists of
his generation and wrote a number of works in that field. He died on
7 Cheshvan 5608 / 1847.
R' Eichenstein had a number of fierce opponents, and it was his
practice to send them gifts from time to time. When his wife
questioned his behavior, he explained it as follows:
"Why do chassidim travel to a rebbe and bring him gifts? It is
because every building needs a foundation. The world is called a
building - as in the verse (Tehilim 89:3), `The world will be built on
chessed' - and the tzaddik is called the foundation of the world
(Mishlei 10:25). By helping to support the foundation of the world,
i.e., the tzaddik, the chassidim are holding up the world itself.
R' Eichenstein continued: "I know that I am no tzaddik. However,
there is another way that I can be considered the foundation of the
world. Specifically, our Sages say that the world exists in the merit
of those who avoid dissension. This is why I try so hard to appease
my enemies." (Sources: Gedolei Ha'dorot p.584; Encyclopedia
La'chassidut)
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