Vayeishev
by Rabbi Yaakov Menken
"And Yaakov settled in the dwelling-place of his father, in the land of
Kena'an."[37:1]
The Medrash says that Yaakov wanted to settle down, into a "satisfied
peace." Anyone who has read through Yaakov's life could understand why this
might be so. He grew up with a murderer for a brother, from whom he
eventually was forced to flee. He then went to his uncle, Lavan the idol-
worshipper, where he worked seven years to get married, only to be tricked
into marrying the wrong sister and working seven more years for the younger
one. Then he continued to work, until fear for his life caused him to run
away once again. Finally, his wife Rachel died bearing her second child. At
this point, we might understand his interest in relaxing with his family!
But the Medrash says that G-d looked at Yaakov, and said, "Is it not enough
for the righteous that the World to Come is prepared for them, that they
also desire to dwell in satisfaction [in this world]?"
The Chassam Sofer, Rabbi Moshe Sofer, asks a variant of the classic
question, "Why do bad things happen to good people?" If G-d is good and
beneficent, he asks, then why should it bother Him that a Tzaddik, a
righteous person, should have peace?
In order to explain this, the Chassam Sofer analyzes the verse in Psalm 145,
"You open up Your hand, and satisfy every living thing with 'Ratzon'
[desire]." We usually understand this to mean that G-d gives every living
thing according to its needs and wants. The Chasam Sofer offers a new insight.
We know, says the Rabbi, that one who receives everything she wants without
limit [and has nothing left to strive for], eventually is disgusted with her
very life. It is very important for a person to have wants and desires. In
addition, it is obvious that one who feels that he lacks something, and
desires it, is a thousand times happier to finally receive it than is one
who never desired it or felt the lack in the first place. This, then, is the
meaning of satisfying every living thing with "desire" - that with all that
G-d gives a person, He ensures that it is with desire - meaning that the
recipient still desires other things. Further, G-d gives the desire in the
first place, in order that we rejoice when we attain our goals.
So too, says the Chassam Sofer, is it important that the righteous recognize
that there is no peace and satisfaction, no completion and no perfection, in
this world. If they did not feel a lack in this world, then they could not
fully understand or rejoice in the greatness of the World to Come. This is
why G-d said, "It is not enough for the righteous that the World to Come is
prepared for them; rather, they must desire to dwell in satisfaction!" It
was not a rhetorical question, but a statement: because of their very
righteousness, they must desire the rest available in the World to Come,
meaning that they must see the lack of it in this world. Then, concludes
Rabbi Sofer, they will rejoice and celebrate in the great things given to
the House of Israel, all of whom have a share in the World to Come!
Text Copyright © 1995 Rabbi Yaakov Menken and Project Genesis, Inc.
The author is the Director of Project Genesis.