Maimonides, Laws of De'os - Chapter 2, Law 7(a)
Torah through Laughter
"One should not be a person of levity and mockery ('s'chok v'hatail'), nor
sad and somber, but cheeful ('samai'ach'). So too did the Sages
say, 'Mockery and lightheadedness accustom [a person] to lewdness' (Pirkei
Avos 3:17) They likewise commanded that a person not be unrestrained in levity ('parutz (broken out) bi's'chok') nor sad and mournful. Rather he should receive
all people with a cheerful countenance."
In the first chapter, the Rambam advised that we follow the middle path in
life, that we not go to either extreme in most character traits. This week
the Rambam writes likewise regarding a person's overall spirits.
The main excess the Rambam advises against this week is undue levity. The
Hebrew term here -- s'chok (we'll use it below) -- implies more than just
good humor. It firstly has a much more active connotation, implying
rejoicing or merrymaking. It also often carries a negative connotation,
conveying a sense of raucous and unbridled revelry. At the destruction of
the First Temple, the Book of Lamentations (Eichah 1:7) describes our
enemies as gloatingly celebrating (sachaku) over our destruction. And
after: "Your enemies opened their mouths on you, they hissed and gnashed
their teeth; they said... 'This is the day we have hoped for...'" (2:16).
In the vernacular of the Sages (often slightly different from Biblical
Hebrew), s'chok began to assume even more negative overtones. It implies
mockery and ridicule, reflecting an overall cynical view of life. It
implies laughing and scoffing at everything, even that which must be taken
seriously. The Mishna writes that one who instructs that a Get (bill of
divorce) be written for his wife but fails to instruct in its delivery
merely means to "play with" (l'sachaik) his wife -- i.e., to torment her,
dangling an undelivered Get in front of her face (Gittin 6:6). Likewise,
the Rambam above quoted the mishna in Pirkei Avos (3:17) that mockery
leads to lewdness. Far more than joking around, s'chok implies making
light of matters which must not be trifled with, of letting down one's
guard and loosening one's morals to the extent that nothing is taken
seriously and far worse breakdowns may follow.
S'chok is thus far worse than humor and laughter. It is not simply more of
the same. It is a different animal altogether. I occasionally come across
people who basically cannot be reasoned with. They find a springboard for
humor in every topic. Attempt to engage them in serious conversation -- to
have them think seriously about their beliefs and life values, and they
laugh it off with some inappropriate wisecrack. Frankly, I find myself
sorely tempted to wring such people's necks. Without a doubt there is a
time for humor. But some things in life just must be taken seriously.
Humor as a defense mechanism -- as a means of blocking out all attempts at
serious contemplation -- I personally find infuriating, and frankly, just
not funny. For heaven's sake, at least take such matters seriously --
whichever side you decide to be on. I'd almost rather have someone tell me
straight out he's not interested in G-d then have him sidestep the issue
with some corny remark. In a way, I find the latter approach far more
insidious -- for such a person refuses even to admit that the issue is
worth contemplating. Laughing in the face of serious life issues will get
you nowhere; such is a laugh hiding a crying soul.
On the other hand, it's interesting to note that the Sages have a
generally positive view of humor. The Talmud writes that before the great
sage Rabba began his lecture, he would crack a joke, the rabbis would
laugh, and then he would sit down with awe and begin his lecture (Pesachim
117a). There's certainly a place in life for good Jewish humor. Even Torah
study should be tempered with good cheer. We must study with an awe of the
gravity of the subject matter being discussed -- in fact we should be
terrified of misunderstanding or making light of G-d's word. Yet at the
same time we should feel an intense joy at the opportunity to fathom G-d's
Torah. And there's nothing like a little humor to bring out that warm,
joyous feeling -- allowing us to loosen up and maintain our focus.
My teacher R. Yaakov Weinberg of blessed memory once pointed out to me
further that presumably Rabba cracked his joke in the study hall --
although the Talmud explicitly forbids levity and most non-sacred
activities in a synagogue (Megillah 28a). Clearly, there is humor which
detracts from the sanctity of a holy place, and there is humor which
augments it, allowing us the proper frame of mind for meaningful and
uplifting study.
Now and then I get a reader who complains to me that one of my occasional
wisecracks in my class belittled the whole idea and detracted from the
entire message. (I generally see that my wisecracks, poor as they are,
generate much more feedback from my readers than my supposedly-serious
teachings...) Needless to say, we must be careful that Torah study does
not degenerate into a front for humor (or for that matter, marketing,
brainwashing or any other less-than-sacred endeavor). Far too often I come
across on-line Torah classes of the format "corny joke / cutesy story --
some remotely-related lesson" (along with a corny-pun title to boot).
Clearly, the Torah must not take back seat to some novice writer's
attempts at comedy.
However, as in many things, a proper balance can and should be struck. If
the overall message is serious and worthy, there's nothing like a little
humor to enhance it and bring it to life -- as well as affording a writer
the opportunity to connect with a distant audience. For better or worse,
our generation is far from the students of Rabba -- who had to be humored
simply to loosen up and study without trepidation. Yet for us too humor
has a place, allowing us the proper frame of mind for engaging yet focused
study. To be sure, the Torah must assume primacy, but once established,
humor can easily -- and naturally -- work its way in.
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