On the Road to Bitachon
By Rabbi Ephraim D. Becker
There is an ideal called Bitachon which, loosely translated, means
assurance drawn from HaShem, and is associated with tranquility and
freedom from any anxiety or anger. Anxiety and anger are preoccupying
states of mind which drain precious resources from one’s service since the
focus is on the self and self-needs and less on the needs of others and on
Divine service. Bitachon leaves the person free to serve HaShem with all
his heart and soul. We function better with Bitachon, we relate to HaShem
more appropriately through Bitachon and we are fulfilling His Will when we
relate to the world with Bitachon. We are also more likely to be
successful when we approach tasks with Bitachon, a small benefit compared
to the boundless reward we will receive for striving to attain Bitachon.
This ideal state is built from a number of components. Each of these
components can be acquired to varying degrees, resulting in more or less
of the tranquility associated with Bitachon. These components include:
1. An awareness of HaShem as all-powerful and in absolute control (Emunah).
2. An awareness of HaShem as only desiring my welfare (Chesed).
3. An awareness of the existence of eternity (Olam HaBah).
4. An awareness that the good is not only in this world but ultimately in
5. An acceptance of the limitations of human understanding of what is best
6. An acceptance of reality as the backdrop against which one is meant to
7. The relationship between human effort and reliance on HaShem.
8. An understanding of the concept of prayer and its role in our
relationship with HaShem.
I think that it is only fair that we treat each of these components a bit
more extensively (they are, after all, the core of a lifetime of effort).
It should be clear, though, at the outset, that many of these components
are likely to run quite contrary to our daily assumptions and as such will
require a good deal of maturity and thought to master. This resistance
gives us a glimpse into the real; the list of components give us a
snapshot of the ideal; and we’ll have to discuss the process:
The Real: My world is fashioned by me; nature is cruel; what you see Is
what you get; if I don’t fix it then it will remain broken; I’ve
determined what is best for myself and for the world; reality is the
problem and I am the solution; and there is no one to turn to but myself.
The Ideal: Acute awareness of each of the assumptions listed above such
that they entirely inform my feelings and reactions. I react to the world
as a master of Bitachon (Ba’al Bitachon).
The Process: Clarification, thoughtful contemplation and application in my
daily interactions (we’ll try to explore these more fully as we go
along). Every little bit of Bitachon goes a very long way.
Text Copyright © 2006 by Rabbi Ephraim D. Becker, Ph.D. and Torah.org.
Rabbi Becker is the Dean of the Brand Seminary - Nesivos Chaya in Jerusalem, Israel. He lectures in Israel and abroad, and maintains a counseling practice in Jerusalem.