Parshas Ki Seitzei
By Rabbi Pinchas Winston
When you go out to war against your enemy, and Hashem, your G-d, gives him
over to your hand, and you take a captive ... "(Devarim 21:10)
So begins the mitzvah of the yafes to'ar, the captive woman. Pshat is as it
sounds: the soldier, in a time of war, during which the yetzer hara has
free reign, is attracted to a non-Jewish female captive, and desires her
for a wife. The rest of the parshah outlines the procedure to make her into
a "kosher" wife, and Rashi points out the potential horrible results of
On a deeper level, the war is a psychological and spiritual one, against
the yetzer hara itself, and the fact that the verse says that it is G-d
that conquers it for us is reminiscent of the Talmudic dictum:
If G-d didn't help him [a person], he could not overcome it [the yetzer
hara]. (Kiddushin 30b)
However, there is seemingly an inconsistency in this understanding. If G-d
has just handed the yetzer hara over to the man, then why did he take a
yafes to'ar? If anything, the man should have been able to resist
temptation and reject the captive non-Jew, and not fall prey to her (that's
right, fall prey to her, because, though he may have captured her, it is
she who smote his heart).
The answer is a fundamental concept in the ongoing battle against the
yetzer hara. One might that think that once a battle is waged against the
yetzer hara, and victory is achieved, that the war is over. Wrong,
dangerously wrong! This is what the verse hints:
... And you see a female captive of beautiful form, and you desire her ...
In other words, the man went from one war to another. Even though he was
successful in the first battle, his eyes dragged him right into the next.
In fact, the victory of the first battle set the stage for the second one.
Such is life, for one really never has rest in This World, if one is intent
on living in the next one, as the Ramchal points out:
Man was therefore created with both a yetzer tov and a yetzer hara. He has
the power to incline himself in whichever direction he desires ... The
Highest Wisdom decreed that man should consist of two opposites. These are
his pure spiritual soul and his unenlightened physical body. Each one is
drawn toward its nature, so that the body inclines toward the material,
while the soul leans toward the spiritual. The two are then in a constant
state of battle ... (Derech Hashem 1:2:1-1:3:2)
This is also the result of Adam's sin of eating from the Tree of Knowledge
of Good and Evil. As the Talmud points out, and Shlomo HaMelech echoed,
even righteous people make mistakes, as a result of the spiritual "filth"
the original snake imposed upon man. Our job is to reverse the effect by
locating our weaknesses, and then overcoming them during our lifetime.
According to the Arizal, this means working on spiritual growth and not
getting absorbed into a materialistic lifestyle. The more one feels a pull
in the direction of gashmius (materialism), the more one is said to be
"courting" the yetzer hara, and binding with it.
Eventually, every individual will have to completely rid himself of the
effects of the snake, but for many this doesn't occur until after death and
burial. However, at that time, it is a painful process, apparently, and
righteous people take care of as much of this as possible during their
lifetimes. As the saying goes, "you can pay us now, or you can pay us
later." But as all of us know, everyone pays something "extra" for being
able to push off payment for as long as possible.
Elul is here. It is time to get real with life.
If a bird's nest happens to be before you along the way in any tree, or on
the ground, [with] young ones or eggs, and the mother is sitting upon the
young or the eggs, then you must not take the mother with the young. You
must send away the mother, while the young you may take for yourself, so
that it may be good for you and you may prolong your days. (Devarim 22:6-7)
"This excludes that which is already at hand." (Rashi)
There are different kinds of mitzvos, and according to the Arizal, there
are even male and female mitzvos! However, the mitzvah of "shiluach haken"
(sending away the mother bird) is one of the rarer and more unusual
mitzvos, comparatively-speaking. It is not the easiest mitzvah to perform,
simply because coming across the mitzvah involves a certain element of
chance, or, pardon me, Hashgochah Pratis.
What makes this even more interesting is the fact that one of the rewards
for doing this mitzvah properly is "arichus yamim," prolonged days. Now,
who wouldn't want prolonged days, and go out of his way to achieve it?
To begin with, the Kli Yekar explains that such a powerful reward for such
a seemingly simple mitzvah is because it has the ability to connect up a
person with G-d. By acknowledging that the young are the product of the
mother, one demonstrates that everything that exists has a source, and that
source has a source, until the Ultimate Source of all: G-d, Himself. This
makes this mitzvah a faith-strengthener, and fortifies one's belief in a
Creator of the Universe.
I would like to add something to this, in light of, or, should I say in
"dark," of what happened last week, namely, the solar eclipse.
One article that I happened to "chance" upon was from NASA (National Aeronautics and Space Administration), which was providing background information to solar eclipses in
general, and about what to expect of this one in particular. At the end of
the article, the following was added:
"It has often been asked if the similarity of the Moon's and Sun's
diameters can be simple coincidence. In the absence of more data about the
statistical distribution of sizes of stars, planets, and moons in solar
systems other than our own, it would seem that the most likely answer is
'yes.' Nevertheless, it is a fortunate coincidence for the denizens of
Why does this question come up? Because the sun is roughly 400 times the
size of the moon, which means that, in front of the sun, the moon should be
unable to block out very much of the sun at all (kind of like putting a
ping pong ball in front of a truck). So why a solar eclipse then? Because,
"coincidentally," the sun happens to be about 400 times farther away from
the earth than the moon is, making the moon and sun appear to the human eye
the exact same size.
And, to add coincidence to coincidence, this is only true about earth, the
moon and the sun, making earth "the only planet with spectacular solar
Interestingly enough, this year's solar eclipse promised more bang for the
buck, because the sun was also approaching its predicted maximum, the
height of an 11-year cycle of solar activity. Also interesting is the fact
that the lunar year is shorter than the solar year by eleven days, and
there is a very Kabbalistic reason for that, tied to the concept of sublime
Torah knowledge and the Jewish mission on earth.
"Right, whatever that means ..."
Well, in any case, this is why the Jewish people are compared to the moon,
as we have discussed many times in the past, and why the first mitzvah upon
leaving Egypt (while still in Egypt) was that of sanctifying the new moon.
This year's eclipse happened to occur before the last day of Av (August
11), when G-d finally forgave the Jewish people for their involvement in
the golden calf episode. With more time, we could talk about the role of
eleven in that whole fiasco, or, at least, the lack of it.
I'm sure we could find more symbolism in all of this, and that many have
already. However, what interests us is the fact that scientists are
compelled to answer their own question and observation with a "yes":
" ... In the absence of more data about the statistical distribution of
sizes of stars, planets, and moons in solar systems other than our own, it
would seem that the most likely answer is 'yes.'"
But what about the fourteenth verse of Bereishis:
"G-d said, "There shall be lights in the heavenly sky to divide between the
day and the night." (Bereishis 1:14)
--and the Midrash that says that, in the beginning, both the sun and the
moon were the same size (Bereishis Rabbah 6:6)? Even though the moon's
light was subsequently reduced because of a little "dispute," we see from
here an inherent relationship between the sun and the moon, and the effect
they are supposed to have on man. From a Torah perspective, there is no
such thing as "chance," even when it comes to the apparent size of the sun
and the moon from earth.
So, then, what about the mother bird and her young? That is a mitzvah that
depends upon chance, or, tremendous Divine Providence. And, if it depends
upon tremendous Divine Providence, then what kind of mitzvah is it?
"The reward of a mitzvah is a mitzvah." (Pirkei Avos 2:1)
And, likewise, the reward for not believing in chance is a mitzvah that
cannot be planned, but which can only be a function of Divine Providence.
And, as the Kli Yekar explains, by doing the mitzvah, one demonstrates his
belief in the concept that all things in the physical world are born from a
spiritual source--the Spiritual Source, G-d, Himself.
You must have a perfect and just weight, and you must have a perfect and
just measure, in order that your days be prolonged on the earth which
Hashem, your G-d, is giving to you. For, all who do these things and all
who do unrighteous things are repulsive to G-d. Remember what G-d did to
Amalek along the way when you left Egypt ... (Devarim 25:15-17)
Seemingly, they are two different messages: the first being to keep fair
weights and measures for business purposes, and the second, a mitzvah to
never forget what Amalek did to the Jewish people just before arriving in
the Sinai Desert, and how G-d avenged the Jewish people. However, as we
discussed last year, the two sections are actually connected to each other,
and this year we will discuss another one of those connections.
If we recall from Parashas Beshalach and the attack of Amalek, to which
this parshah makes reference, we read:
G-d told Moshe, "Write this as a memorial in the Book, and repeat it
carefully to Yehoshua. I will completely eradicate the memory of Amalek
from under heaven." Moshe built an altar, and called it "Ado-nay-nissi"
[G-d-is-My- Banner] saying, "The Hand is on G-d's Throne. G-d will be at
war with Amalek for all generations." (Shemos 17:14-16)
It seems that G-d took Amalek's attack on the Jewish people quite
personally (so-to-speak). For, He does not take such an oath regarding any
other group of anti-Semites, including Yishmael and Eisav himself,
elsewhere in history. Perhaps, in this week's parshah, the connecting verse
"For, all who do these things and all who do unrighteous things are
repulsive to G-d."
That is, Amalek is repulsive to G-d. Why? Because, he does "these things"
and acts unrighteously. However, that hardly seems like the reason to hate
Amalek above and beyond all other enemies of the Jews. After all, what
nation hasn't had its share of cheaters and thieves?! There are some
nations, it seems from the Midrash, whose entire philosophy centered on
dishonesty, and Amalek wasn't mentioned among them. Furthermore, those
nations didn't even make the top two Divinely-despised list!
This is why, as always, the answer must be sought on deeper levels,
especially when it comes to fully understanding Amalek's philosophy (which
we must do), and its insidious effect on the Jewish psyche.
The Hebrew word "da'as" means "knowledge." But it is a generic term that
can have more specific meanings as well. For example, in Kabbalah, it is a
term that denotes balance, the harmonization of two opposites and extremes.
In a sense, it is a knowledge born out of a balanced perspective, and
therefore in the sefiros it follows "Chochmah" and "Binah."
Amalek, whose Hebrew name adds up to the Hebrew word "safek," which means
doubt, comes to de-stabilize man's, and particularly the Jew's,
perspective. He has many methods, and they change with the generation and
even with the seasons. But the result is always the same: an imbalanced
perspective that denies the mind's eye a clear and accurate perception of
reality--from G-d's perspective.
That is why, in the end, Amalek doesn't really care whether a Jew is
religious or secular, just as long as his perspective is out-of-kilter--and
it can happen in either world. Frighteningly enough, there is such a thing
as a "frum" (i.e., religious) yetzer hara too, who uses Torah-like reasons
to avoid facing the truth--the ultimate truth, which may involve life
changes and reponsibilites the person does not want to confront. As a
religious Jew, I can speak for myself: I have vices too.
Warning! Amalekians lurk in the dark shadowy areas of imbalanced perspectives.
Forunately, Elul has arrived, and with it, the blowing of the shofar. As
the Rambam teaches, we blow the shofar daily in advance of Rosh Hashanah as
a kind of spiritual wake-up call, to wake us all up from our deep
"slumber." And, if we chance to wake up and face the music, then we also
have a fighting chance to ward off an attack from Amalek (and those who
represent him in This World), and the disasters he brings to us in his wake
(no pun intended).
Why do the people gather, and the nations talk in vain? The kings of the
earth take their stand and the privy counsellors conspire secretly against
G-d and against His anointed. (Tehillim 2:1-2)
According to tradition, Dovid HaMelech, in this tehillah, is addressing the
age-old question of why bad people prosper. He answers by explaining that
their success is temporary because G-d despises them, and adds that if we
are not worthy to see their downfall in our lifetime, the world will see it
in the days of Moshiach. Painful as it is to put up with it in the meantime,
you have to know that the success of the evil is short-lived, and people
who take immoral short-cuts will have to pay a price in the end that will
not have been worth it.
If truth, though it may take time, eventually good triumphs over evil, even
the worst kind. The trouble is, within a short time a new evil and
perpetrator of evil arises and steals center stage until good can triumph
once again, and once and for all--that being in the time of Moshiach. This
is why the rabbis teach that this mizmor describes Messianic times as well
Elsewhere, according to the Talmud (Sotah 49b), it says that such a time
will be one of political instability for the nations of the world, of
revolution, audacity, atheism, corruption, and terrible inflation. (Hmmmm
... sounds vaguely familiar.) Eventually, all of this inner turmoil will
spill onto the international stage, resulting in that ultimate final war of
Gog and Magog, which, as terrible as it may be, will serve to "filter" out
all the insincere servants of G-d (Avodah Zarah 3b).
" ... Yours, G-d, is the kingdom and You are exalted as Head above all."
(Divrei HaYomim I:29:11)
--and the Talmud explained:
Exalted above all ... This will be evident after the war of Gog and Magog.
Then being evil and prosper will officially be an oxymoron.
Speaking of history and Gog and Magog, there is the following quote that
also has to do with this week's parshah and the following posuk:
You must have a perfect and just weight (ehven shlaimah) ... (Devarim 25:15)
As an interesting aside to do with this week's parshah, there is the following:
"I heard from HaRav HaGaon Hishish ... from my teacher, HaRav Yitzchak
Margolis, the head of the Bais Din is Shetzutzin in Poland, who heard from
the 'Light of the Exile,' our teacher HaRav Chaim from Volozhin, that the
Gra (Vilna Gaon) said that the book 'Mishnah Torah' (Devarim) alludes in
each parshah to what will happen in each one hundred years of the sixth
millennium--ten parshios corresponding to ten periods of one hundred years
(Nitzavim and Vayailech are considered one parshah). Rav Chaim asked him,
'Where are we hinted to in Parashas Ki Saitzai (which corresponds to the
100-year period we are in)?' He answered him that his [the Gra's] name was
hinted to in the words 'ehven shlaimah,' but the name of Rav Chaim was
hidden from him (it is not clear if the Gra hid it from Rav Chaim, or Rav
Chaim left it out because of his humility) ..." (Sefer HaEmunah
First of all, the words "ehven shlaimah" as they are spelt, can be taken
as, "Eliyahu ben Shlomo," the Gra's name, because the first word can be an
abbreviation of "Eliyahu ben." When they asked the Gra why his last name
was spelt in full, and his first name was abbreviated, he answered,
"Because I was only meant to reveal part of the Torah I know, and to
conceal part as well."
Secondly, according to the Gra, just as Parashas Ki Seitzei, the sixth
parshah in Devarim would have corresponded to the period 5500-5600, or,
1740 CE to 1840 CE, Parashas Ki Savo, the seventh parshah, would have
corresponded to the period, 5600 to 5700, or, 1840 to 1940 CE, ending in
the middle of World War II. Parashas Ki Savo, we must recall, contains the
infamous curses for straying from the Torah, describing in explicit detail
what can be construed as a Holocaust. According to the Gra, this should
come as no surprise.
Moving ahead in time, we arrive at the eighth parshah, Nitzavim-Vayailech,
which we read this year on the Shabbos right before Rosh Hashanah 5760.
Nitzavim-Vayailech, therefore, corresponds to the period from 5700 to 5800,
or, from 1940 to 2040 CE.
What does this parshah speak about, and what does it speak to us? If you
sneak a peak at these parshios (which we won't read until the week before
Rosh Hashanah 5760), you will have little difficulty making connections
between the parshios and our times. Or, you can wait until that week, when
I will, b"H, address the issue as well.
Have a great Shabbos,
May this year be filled with much blessing,
And only good news,
For all of the Jewish People.
Nizke Lirot Geulah Shlaimah!
All the best from
The Winston Family
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