Parshas VaEschanan
Comfort-Able?
By Rabbi Pinchas Winston
FRIDAY NIGHT:
Your G-d is a devouring fire, a jealous G-d ...(Devarim 4:24)
Agrippas, the general of Rome, asked Rabban Gamliel: "It is written, 'Your
G-d is a devouring fire, a jealous G-d ...' In life, we only find it that a
wise man is jealous of another wise man, a strong man of another strong
man, a rich man of another rich man ... If G-d is jealous of an idol, the
idol must have some power!"
Rabban Gamliel answered him, "I will give you a parable. If one who is
already married takes a second wife, the former will not be jealous of the
new one if the new one is superior to her. However, if the fomer is
superior to latter, then she will be jealous of her." (Avodah Zarah 55a)
This is an interesting discussion in the Talmud, but what are they really
arguing about? Are they discussing the supposed powers of idols, or a more
general concept: jealousy? From the direction of the dialogue, it seems
that the latter issue is the real one.
According to Agrippas, jealousy occurs amongst people of similar abilities.
We respect people greater than ourselves, and often shun people of lesser
ability. It is people like ourselves that threaten us most, and who often
tend to end up with portions that we deem to rightfully belong to us.
Therefore, says Agrippas, if G-d is "jealous" of idols, is He not admitting
they are like Him?
Rabban Gamliel says, it is not as you say. Jealousy is more a function of
having to share with an inferior. People greater than us we respect, and we
know they deserve things we don't have. People equal to us in stature also
don't invoke feelings of jealousy, perhaps, according to Rabban Gamliel,
because we reason, "If I can have such a thing, why can't they?" However,
when it comes to "inferiors" (at least people we perceive as being so), we
feel a sense of injustice when they enjoy benefits we don't, but must
deserve!
The truth is, as the Torah proves over and over again, jealousy usually
does take place amongst equals, just as Agrippas said. Kayin was jealous
of, and killed his brother Hevel who was, at least, his equal. Eisav was
jealous of Ya'akov who was definitely his superior. Rachel and Leah were
jealous of each other, and neither was inferior to the other. The brothers
were jealous of Yosef, and though they wanted to believe he was their
inferior, in their heart-of-hearts, they probably knew he was superior. So
what then was Rabban Gamliel trying to teach?
Rabban Gamliel was telling Agrippas, "Don't try to understand G-d by
projecting human traits onto Him. His jealousy is not a jealousy of man,
for He can give Himself whatever He wants, whenever He wants it. Ultimately
speaking, who made the idol, and allows it to appear powerful in the eyes
of others? G-d, of course."
Therefore, says Rabban Gamliel, G-d is not jealous of Jewish loyalty to
foreign gods as we might be jealous of an equal. What upsets Him is the
tremendous waste of energy and time we expend worshipping false gods. What
angers G-d is the way that the Jewish people turn to false powers as an
excuse to avoid reality, and to permit that which the Torah forbids. What
"frustrates" G-d, so-to-speak, is that Jews are prepared to deny the
reality of Divine Providence, to ignore the "writing on the wall," and to
place false hopes in false powers. It is this that the Torah is warning
about when it says, "Your G-d is a devouring fire, a jealous G-d ..."
For this reason, we have to look at our lives, and do a reckoning. We have
to see where and when we turn to false beliefs for guidance in life. We
have to analyze our lifestyles, and uncover our false assumptions/gods.
For, nothing angers G-d more than a wasted life, and the pursuit of false
beliefs.
SHABBOS DAY:
Hear Israel, Hashem our G-d, Hashem is One. And you shall love Hashem, your
G-d, with all your heart(s), with all your soul, and with all you
possessions ... (Devarim 6:4-5)
These are, without a doubt, the most famous words in Judaism, for they form
the basis of the Shema, the Jewish "Creed." How many times have these words
been said by how many Jews throughout the three millennia of Jewish
history? Even the forefathers knew these words and said them, and they have
been the final words on the lips of many a G-d-fearing Jew, during times of
peace, and especially during times of horrible persecution.
Nevertheless, the Talmud asks:
Rebi Eliezer said: If it says, "with all your life," why does it say "with
all your possessions"? And if it says, "with all your possessions," why
does it say, "with all your life." For the person who places higher value
on his life than his property, it says, "with all your life." For the
person who values his possessions more than his own life, it says, "with
all your possessions." (Brochos 61b)
This way, the Talmud is saying, the Torah speaks to all types of Jews, and,
from all of them, it has demanded unswerving loyalty to G-d and Torah.
However, the Vilna Gaon is still left with a question of his own:
"This is difficult to understand. Is there anyone in the world that loves
his money more than his own life? You find people will only sacrifice up
until death, because in death there is nothing anyway!" (Kol Eliyahu,
VaEschanan, 103)
For this reason, the Gra explains the Talmud as follows:
"One could say that the explanation is as follows: If a person valued his
possessions more than his life, meaning, that he finds it easier to
physically do mitzvos than to spend money on mitzvos, because he can
overlook physical effort, but not financial loss, then he should be careful
not to hold back financially. In other words, Rebi Eliezer is not talking
about actual self-sacrifice--just physical exertion versus financial
expenditure. This works well with the continuation of the Talmud, since
Rebi Akiva adds, 'with all your life' means actually giving one's life up
for G-d when necessary. This also explains why, at the time that the Romans
were raking his flesh with metal combs, it was difficult for the students,
who questioned, 'For things like this you don't have to give up your life
in order to sanctify the Name of G-d,' because they held like Rebi Eliezer,
who said that it only means to bear the trouble of serving G-d. Thus they
asked him [Rebi Akiva], 'To this extent?' to which he answered, 'All of my
life I was bothered by this verse,' meaning, 'I hold that it means even
surrendering one's life, and now that I can fulfill it, will I not?'."
However, in spite of this profound and insightful answer, perhaps there is
more to learn, by asking why the order of the three phases is reversed.
For, as a progression from the least personal to the most personal, it
should really state: with all your possessions, with all your heart, and
with all your life. Why is the last phrase not the first one?
I have no source to say this, but I would like to suggest the following.
The Talmud states (Sanhedrin 97a) that there are three distinct period of
history that make up a total of 6,000 years: 2,000 years of spiritual
desolation, 2,000 years of Torah dissemination, and 2,000 years of
Moshiach's coming. Could it be that the three phrases of the Shema
correspond to these periods of time?
After all, since Torah was not given until the year 2,448/1313 BCE, the
test of man during the first 2,000 years was really one of loyalty--a
heart-issue. The question then was, would man stay loyal to his Creator, or
would he pursue false idols instead. He may, like Avraham, be willing to
die for G-d and truth, but it wasn't commanded of him, not yet. This was
the period, therefore, perhaps, of "with all your heart."
However, in the second period of history, the Torah was given and the
Jewish people were officially formed as a Torah-nation. That included an
official life of mitzvos, one of which is to sanctify the Holy Name of G-d
through life and, if necessary, through death.
Tragically, from 1313 BCE onward until the year 239 BCE (4,000 from
creation), it has been exile and persecution for religious reasons most of
the way through. It didn't end with the year 239 BCE, that is for certain.
However, certainly the period of time up until the deaths of the famous
"Ten Martyrs," who died at the hands of the Romans, was a unique period of
mesiros nefesh--self-sacrifice. Could this have been the period of, "with
all your life"?
Now, in our period of 2,000 years, at the end of the last one called, "The
Heels of Moshiach," it is clear that Jews are not being forced to give up
their lives for Judaism, for Torah, and for Eretz Yisroel--just their
possessions. Well, not all of them, but enough of them that many simply
turn their backs on Torah and their ancestors, for the sake of a more
physical, more comfortable lifestyle. Could it be that we are the
generation that corresponds to the phrase, "with all your possessions."
As I said earlier, I have not seen this written down in any book, nor have
I heard a rabbi of authority expound this. Nevertheless, it does seem to
echo a historical pattern, and perhaps, it is a good reason to sit down and
seriously contemplate what the Shema is saying to each and every one of us,
so close to the end of history.
SEUDAH SHLISHI:
I pleaded with G-d at that time, saying, "G-d, You have begun to show me
Your greatness and Your strong hand. What G-d in Heaven and on earth is
there that can do as You have done with Your strength?! Please, let me pass
over (eb'rah) and see the good land on the other side of the Jordan, the
good mountain, and the Lebanon ..." (Devarim 3:23-24)
There are many commentaries on these verses, and many versions of why Moshe
was so insistent on crossing the Jordan River and entering Eretz Canaan.
This is one of them:
"The settling of Eretz Yisroel is equal to all the mitzvos, and it is
written in Sefer HaChinuch, 'I was asleep, but my heart was awake (Hebrew:
ayin-raish)' (Shir HaShirim 5:2), because when I am in the exile of Edom,
then I will be sleeping from 270 (raish-ayin) mitzvos. The seven rabbinical
mitzvos with the 270 mitzvos equal "eb'rah" (aleph, ayin, bais, raish,
heh). This is why Moshe pleaded to enter Eretz Yisroel, [the settling of]
which is equal to all the mitzvos, as it says, 'Please, let me pass over
...' meaning, 'Now that I am outside the land, I only have "eb'rah"
mitzvos. However, once I see the land, I will be able to do all the
mitzvos.'." (Yalkut Reuvaini, VaEschanan, 95)
The truth is, the gematria of the word "e'brah" is 278, not 277, unless, of
course, we are dealing with the kollel gematria (a common form of gematria)
in which case, one is added for the word itself. This idea is consistent
with the Kli Yekar on the first posuk of this week's parshah, which says
that Moshe wanted to cross the river into Eretz Yisroel in order to be able
to perform all the mitzvos that can only be performed in Eretz Yisroel.
However, what is more significant, perhaps, is that the Midrash places
Eretz Yisroel on one side of the scale balancing out all the rest of the
mitzvos of the Torah on the other side of the scale. Furthermore, the
Midrash talks about a "sleep" that will overtake the Jews living outside
the land, during the final exile of Edom, in which we are close to the end.
(This probably accounts for the recent trend of a lack of desire to live in
Eretz Yisroel, amongst all groups of Jews.)
Moshe Rabbeinu understood all of this, and probably wanted to rectify it,
not just for himself, but for all the generations to come. For, as history
has proven, there is nothing worse than a "sleeping" Jew,
philosophically-speaking, of course. And for the "sleeping" Jew, there is
nothing worse than a Divine wake-up call, as the these three weeks, and
Tisha B'Av, come to remind us.
As we sit on the floor (or low seats) this Tisha B'Av (you may be reading
this after Tisha B'Av, but it went out before Tisha B'Av--the message is
the same in any case), we should think about our lives, not just in the
context of our immediate vicinity, but in the context of all of Jewish
history. We should think hard, and ask ourselves important questions, such
as,
"Where am I going in life, and what does my plan have to do with the
overall goals of the Jewish people, and G-d's master plan for creation?
Philosophically-speaking, am I asleep, or awake?"
The answers to these questions might be a little jolting for some, since
many are not used to looking at their lives in this manner. However, it
might lead some to wake up to Jewish history, and avoid the need for harsh
forms of Divine Providence.
MELAVE MALKAH:
"If only their hearts would always remain this way, where they are in such
awe of Me. They would then keep all My commandments for all time, so that
it would go well with them and their children forever." (Devarim 5:26)
This Shabbos is "Shabbos Nachamu," the first of seven "Shabbatot of
consolation." Spiritually and emotionally drained from Tisha B'Av and its
long history of destructive effects, we are in need of serious consolation.
All of the haftaros for the next seven weeks have been specifically chosen
to convey this sentiment to all generations of Jews, until the real
consolation of the Final Redemption will actually occur.
To understand the nature of the consolation, you have to first understand
the nature of the loss. Tisha B'Av was about more than the destruction of
the holy Temple, the House of G-d. It was about more than the fall of
Beitar, and the horrible massacre that followed. It is even about more than
the untold amount of Jewish blood that has flowed through the streets of
just about every nation that we have ever crossed paths with, throughout
our long, arduos journey to Yemos HaMoshiach.
Tisha B'Av is about terrible, and needless self-destruction.
It is always amazing how many people, when examining a Jewish history
stained with blood can see only an angry G-d. In the "early days," the love
of G-d for His children, was manifest. He talks to Avraham, and takes
council with him. Yitzchak, Avraham's son, is saved from death and blessed
with a long life. Ya'akov has troubles, but G-d is there each time to shore
him up and blesses him with a large, successful family.
Egyptian slavery was a painful period of time, but a limited one. It ended
with a great redemption after only 210 years (the actual enslavement lasted
only 116 years), and G-d carried us "on eagles' wings" for decades. He
spoke with us and personally advised us for the next 1,000 years through
the fantastic and supernatural medium of prophecy.
But then, prophecy ended, and G-d went into "hiding"; the Divine lines of
communication were shut down, and we were banished from our land, not once,
not twice, but three times altogether. We have never recovered since. We
are still, as a nation, broken up and spread all over the world, and
spiritually "bleeding" with the help of an exceedingly high rate of
assimilation and inter-marriage.
If you were G-d, would you want such children back?
Tisha B'Av says, one would think not. Shabbos Nachamu says, yes. For, as
the posuk above says, G-d is our Father-in-Heaven who lives to love His
children. He is not an angry G-d, but a G-d that displays anger when the
children need to see it. He is not a jealous G-d, but a G-d that displays
jealousy when His children need to experience it--for their sake, and not
for His.
However, as the above posuk, and the following weeks of haftaros make
clear, He is truly and sincerely a loving G-d, in spite of all that He has
allowed us, His treasured nation, to live through. He lives, so-to-speak,
to give us good, and made us for that very reason. However, like all
children, we do our best to make sure He can't, and then can't understand
why He won't.
Here is the consolation: In spite of the fact that we have given G-d plenty
of reason to completely turn His back on us, and abandon us in a world that
sees little, if no purpose for a Jewish people, He will not. Tisha B'Av
tells us that we, on so many occasions, have rejected G-d and have rejected
His good. His is always in response to ours. Shabbos Nachamu, on the other
hand, promises us that, in spite of all of this, the relationship is not
over. In fact, it will never be over; as soon as we decide to regain that
awe of G-d and become intensely loyal to Him, we will see just how far that
promise and relationship actually go.
Dovid HaMelech understood this, and wrote Tehillim to express it to all the
generations that followed him. From Tehillim, one would never know just how
difficult Dovid HaMelech's life was. And, if one had suffered as Dovid
HaMelech had suffered, he would never, without a doubt, have written
Tehillim--love songs to G-d. This is why the saying of Tehillim,
particularly in groups and at the same time (though the books can be
divided up amongst individuals), plays such a major role in bringing a
peaceful redemption.
That was Dovid HaMelech's main strength, and why, in spite of his errors,
he remained to be king of Israel, and the "father" of the Moshiach: He was
able to see past the "veil" of the suffering in his own life, and in the
life his people, and see the "heart" of G-d. He understood G-d's true
sentiment and desire to give good to His people:
"If only their hearts would always remain this way, where they are in such
awe of Me. They would then keep all My commandments for all time, so that
it would go well with them and their children forever." (Devarim 5:26)
As we enter the period of Elul, of which the rabbis teach is a time when
G-d's love is more manifest, may we merit to see the Final Redemption of
the Jewish people, an end to all sorrows, and the ultimate Father-and-Child
reunion.
Have a great Shabbos,
Pinchas Winston