Beyond the Bounds, Part I
Chapter 5, Mishna 21(a)
By Rabbi Dovid Rosenfeld
"Anyone who brings the many towards merit -- a sin will not come about
through him. And anyone who brings the many to sin will not be given the
opportunity to repent. Moses merited and brought merit to the many. The
merit of the many was dependent upon him, as it is said, 'He did G-d's
righteousness and G-d's justice with Israel' (Deuteronomy 33:21). Jeroboam
ben (son of) Nevat sinned and brought the masses to sin. The sin of the
many was dependent upon him, as it is said, '...for the sins of Jeroboam
which he sinned and caused Israel to sin' (I Kings 15:30)."
This mishna discusses one of the both sad and exhilarating realities of
life -- our ability to influence others and its effect upon ourselves. If
I positively influence others, I have made an imprint on the world beyond
my limited self. The world has been made a better place -- irreversibly,
as far as I'm concerned. Once this has occurred, G-d no longer deals with
me as a solitary individual. I do not stand alone before G-d. The good I
have brought into the world assumes a life of its own; it is not longer
limited to me.
If theoretically I were afterwards brought to sin, I would still have the
significant merit of my share in the good deeds of others. And G-d, so to
speak, does not allow this. As the commentators (Rashi, Rabbeinu Yonah)
explain, it would not be fitting that my students bask in the World to
Come while I suffer in purgatory. Thus, if I have done good beyond myself,
G-d rewards me in kind -- bringing forces beyond me to safeguard me along
the path I have inspired in others.
The same is true regarding evil. If I have corrupted others, I have
brought about evil in this world beyond my ability to contain. I may one
day decide to repent myself, but it is no longer up to me. There is no way
for me to undo the damage I have wrought upon others -- unless somehow I
use my same persuasive abilities to bring them back to Torah. Otherwise, I
must carry the burden of the evil I have unleashed in the world. Thus, G-d
does not allow me to repent while my "students" suffer. I have gone beyond
my bounds in evil, and G-d too punishes beyond the bounds of His
characteristic compassion.
With this in mind, we can gain an understanding of one of the most widely
misunderstood concepts of the Torah. For as long as there have been
skeptics, people have naively (or willfully) misunderstood Judaism as a
religion of strict justice, commanded by a wrathful G-d of vengeance. Does
not the Torah state, "For I, the L-rd your G-d, am a jealous G-d, visiting
the iniquity of the fathers on the sons, on the third generation and on
the fourth generation to those that hate Me" (Exodus 20:5)?
At a relatively young age, I recall reading a book on ancient history
which defined Judaism (at least ancient Judaism -- maybe some folks have
come along and *improved* upon it since then!) as a religion of grim and
compassionless justice, in which if a man sins, G-d not only punishes the
sinner but his son as well. (I guess "Love your neighbor" (Leviticus
19:18 -- that's the Old Testament) was somehow only discovered by the
Christians.) (Incidentally, even at that young age my religious upbringing
was healthy enough for me to realize I was basically reading patent
rubbish. Sad that much of the unsuspecting public is not so well-equipped.)
For starters, I would suspect nothing short of willful misrepresentation
here. The following verse in Exodus continues: "And [I] do kindness for
two thousand generations for those who love Me and for those who observe
My commandments." On this the Sages observe, rather matter of factly, that
G-d's kindness is 500 times greater than His justice (Mechilta there).
This aside, however, this is a concept which requires examination. G-d
does seem to carry over sins -- as well as mitzvos (good deeds) -- from
one generation to the next. What could the justice be behind that? How
could the hapless son somehow be faulted for the faults of his wicked
father?
The first relevant observation is that the Talmud makes it evidently clear
that children are rewarded or punished only if they continue in their
parents' path (Berachos 7a). G-d does not reward or punish because of
ancient history -- because of a past the children had no knowledge of nor
control over. Even so, this topic is far from concluded. Even if the son
does continue in his father's path (and let's face it -- that's what the
son grew up with -- he had far less ability to decide then the rest of
us), why is he punished (or rewarded) beyond what he himself does? Can I
really be punished for someone else's sins?
The simplest answer to this is that punishment per se is possibly not the
correct word. What the father has done is akin to what the sinner of our
mishna has done. He has brought evil into the world beyond himself. The
effects of it will last for many generations. The son, who was raised on
cynicism, dishonesty, or religious apathy, will grow up with a twisted and
corrupted world view. For him the concept of the Sabbath -- even if
observed in body -- will be a time of culinary pleasures and weekend
recreation -- rather than spiritual awakening and rejuvenation. The
Sabbath table will be forum for discussions of gossip, kibbitzing, and
synagogue politics rather than Torah, zemiros (songs), and quality family
time. Jewish holidays will be little more than social occasions. This --
what some call "shell Judaism" -- will be the default mindset the son will
have acquired. Religion will be habit, superstitious nostalgia, or social
convention rather than a meaningful way of life. The ignorance or cynicism
the son or daughter was raised with will grow into a warped view of
Judaism and of life. And unless arrested, it will create a burden he will
have to carry for the rest of his life.
Thus, the son who follows his parents' evil path will have twice as far to
climb. He will be "punished" for his father's iniquities by having to
shoulder the burden of ignorance or apathy, and having to fight an uphill
struggle against the painfully wrong default positions he has borne since
youth.
This discussion has a long way to go. We'll pick it up G-d willing next
week. Good Shabbos - Shabbat Shalom!
Text Copyright © 2006 by Rabbi Dovid Rosenfeld and Torah.org.