Parshas Reeh
Don't Give It Personally
By Rabbi Yochanan Zweig
DON’T GIVE IT PERSONALLY
“Rather, you shall open your hand to him; you shall lend him his
requirement…” (15:8)
The Torah instructs us to be open-handed with our destitute brethren.
Initial assistance should be in the form of a gift.[1] However, continues
the verse, if the recipient is reluctant to receive a gift, we should offer
assistance in the form of a loan, thereby allowing him to maintain his
dignity. The next verse warns that although the seventh year of the Shemitah
cycle cancels all outstanding debt, we should not be deterred from issuing
the loan.[2] Why does a person who has already shown his willingness to
assist the destitute without any compensation require a
warning not to hesitate if the assistance is in the form of a loan?
When a person gives a gift he experiences a sense of expansiveness. Often it
is this feeling of magnanimity which motivates his actions When the
assistance is provided as a loan, the sense of magnanimity is lessened.
Furthermore, if eventually the loan is cancelled, the recipient does not
attribute his good fortune to the actions of the lender. Rather than the
lender being perceived as a benefactor, he senses that the recipient has
taken advantage of him. Since this is a less than satisfying experience for
the lender, the Torah must reiterate that the focus of his actions should be
the well-being of the needy and not his own personal satisfaction.
Consequently, money should be lent unhesitatingly even when the seventh year
is pending.
1.See Rashi 15:8 2.15:9
THAT’S WHAT FRIENDS ARE FOR
“This is what you shall not eat...the chasidah...” (14:12,18)
The Ramban teaches that the birds which we are prohibited to eat exhibit
negative character traits, and therefore, consumption of those birds would
infuse these traits into the person’s character.[1]In light of this, it is
difficult to reconcile the Ramban’s teaching with the Talmud’s explanation
of the name “chasidah”, one of the prohibited birds, so called for the
“chesed” - “kindness” which it displays towards its friends.[2] How could
kindness be considered a negative trait?
An answer is given in the name of the Kotzker Rebbe. Since the bird only
performs acts of kindness for those whom it considers to be its friends,
this is a negative trait. One should be sensitive to anyone in need, not
exclusively to friends.
However, this answer does not completely solve the problem. According to the
Kotzker Rebbe’s explanation, why does the Torah define the bird by the
positive acts that it does, rather than by its negative trait, the chesed
which it does not do?
Perhaps the Talmud is teaching us that since the bird considers that which
it does for its friends to be a chesed, this is a negative trait. One should
view that which he does for his friends as an expression of his commitment
to the relationship, not as a charitable act.
1.See Ramban Parshas Shemini 11:13, these are birds that exhibit cruelty. 2.
Chullin 63a
FOUR YOUR HAPPINESS
“You shall rejoice before Hashem your G-d…” (16:11)
The Torah teaches that there is a mitzva to rejoice before Hashem during the
three Pilgrimage Festivals. The verse records eight categories of people
whom a person must include in his own rejoicing.[1] Rashi cites a Midrash
stating that four of these people are from Hashem’s household, the Levi,
convert, orphan, and widow, and four are from a person’s own household, his
son, daughter, servant, and maidservant; “If we bring joy to Hashem’s
household, His four, He will bring joy to our four.”[2] Why does Hashem
not take care of His four dependants while we take care
of our four?
The Talmud defines “bringing joy” in material terms, i.e. clothing for the
women, meat and wine for the men.[3] The Torah has already delineated our
obligation to be charitable.[4] Therefore, this particular method of
rejoicing appears to be unrelated to the law of charity, rather it is a
facet which is inherent to the rejoicing itself. How does following this
system enhance our joy?
The Talmud’s analysis of the verses from Megillas Esther notes that Esther
and Mordechai initially intended Purim to be a day of “simcha u’mishteh
v’Yom Tov” - “gladness, and feasting, and Yom Tov”. However, Bnei Yisroel
accepted upon themselves “y’mei mishteh v’simcha” - “days of feasting and
gladness”, omitting the requirement for Purim to be a Yom Tov.[5] The verse
states that the requirement of “matanos l’evyonim” - “gifts to the needy”
was added, indicating that this mitzva substitutes and somehow compensates
for the omission of Yom Tov.[6] How does giving gifts to the needy replace
the aspect of Yom Tov that Esther and Mordechai sought to instill in Purim?
At the end of the chapter of the laws governing the practices and customs of
Purim, the Rambam records that it is preferable to make a greater financial
expenditure on matanos l’evyonim than on the other precepts of the day. The
reason given by the Rambam is that there is no “simcha” greater than
gladdening the hearts of the unfortunate, for doing so allows one to emulate
his Creator.[7]
Emoting the G-dliness within each of us allows us to experience the greatest
fulfillment possible. This is achieved by emulating Hashem. Through
self-fulfillment one achieves simcha in its most pristine form.
The greatest emulation of Hashem’s trait of compassion is achieved by
bringing joy to the unfortunate. Therefore, Hashem instructs us to sustain
His four dependants rather than only our own. Focusing only upon our
dependants is an act which we perform more out of obligation than compassion.
Yom Tov includes two requirements, the obligation to desist from creative
acts – “issur melacha”, and the requirement to be happy – “vesamachta
bechagecha”. Bnei Yisroel were reluctant to accept Purim as a Yom Tov in
regards to the issur melacha aspect of the day. However, they did not
relinquish the obligation to be happy on Yom Tov. Since gladdening the poor
is the ultimate level of simcha that a Jew can experience on Yom Tov, the
verse in Megilla states that Bnei Yisroel accepted the obligation to give
matanos l’evyonim. This was not a new injunction, but reflected the fact
that they accepted the observance of Purim as a Yom Tov as it related to the
second aspect of the day.
1.16:11 2.Rashi ibid 3.Pesachim109a 4.15:11 5.Megillah 5b 6.Megillas Esther
9:22 7.Yad Hilchos Megillah 2:17