Parshas Haazinu
The Healer Is On-Call
"Seek out Hashem when He can be found..." (Yeshaya 55:6)
The ten days between Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur are referred to by our
Sages as the "Aseres Y'mei Teshuva" - "ten days of repentance". This concept
is alluded to in the verses. The Rambam records that during this period
Teshuva is more effective.[1] The mitzva of Teshuva can be performed
throughout the entire year; what is the significance of this time period
that makes it more auspicious for repentance?
The Rambam, in his magnum opus, "Yad Hachazaka" records the principle of
"bechira chofshis" - "free choice" in the Laws of Repentance.[2] Free choice
is the very basis of our relationship with Hashem. Without the ability to
choose right over wrong there could not be a system of reward and
punishment. Why then does the Rambam wait until the Laws of Repentance which
are found at the end of the first section of the Yad Hachazaka to discuss
free choice, and not include it in the chapter "Yesodei Hatorah" -
"Fundamentals of the Torah" which is found at the beginning of the section?
Modern psychology eschews the belief that most negative behaviors are
symptomatic of greater problems which lie embedded in a person's psyche.
Therefore, psychologists deal with a patient's past experiences, in the
attempt to expose the cause which precipitated the current behaviors or
attitudes of the individual. For example, a person slandering and
deprecating others could be indicative of his own low self-esteem, while an
abusive personality could be manifest in one who himself was abused. It
would seem that the law of repentance completely ignores this notion. The
Rambam elaborates upon the definition of complete repentance, allotting ten
chapters to the subject; the penitent is required to desist from the action,
show remorse and verbally express that he has sinned before Hashem,
committing never to do so again. His motivations and past experiences that
are the underpinnings of his actions are never mentioned. If the
psychological principle is well-founded, failing to address the underlying
issues ensures that the behavior will be repeated. Why is the root of the
problem not addressed? Do our Sages not agree with the entire concept of
psychoanalysis?
The Talmud states that Shaul, who erred with one transgression, was
sentenced to death by the Heavenly court and had the Monarchy removed from
his family. David, who erred on two occasions, was given a reprieve,
allowing the Monarchy to endure within his family. David was held
accountable for having taken Bas Sheva away from her husband Uriah and for
taking a head-count of Bnei Yisroel, which is prohibited by Law, and
resulted in the death of seventy thousand men.[3] Both of these acts of
commission appear to outweigh the sin of Shaul, who was overly
compassionate, sparing the life of Agag the Amalakite king and the Amalakite
livestock, an act of omission.[4] The Maharsha questions why David was dealt
with preferentially when his transgressions appear to be of greater severity
than Shaul's.[5]
After the sin of Bas Sheva, Nosson the prophet approached David, rebuking
him for his transgression. David responded "chatasi laHashem" - "I have
sinned to Hashem".6 Shaul too, when rebuked by the prophet Shmuel, replied
"chatasi ki avarti es pi Hashem" - "I have sinned, violating Hashem's
word".7 Although there appears to be no difference between the contrition of
Shaul and that of David, the answer lies in Shaul's subsequent words, "ki
yareisi es ha'am va'eshma b'kolam" - "for I was fearful of the nation,
bowing to their demands".8 Whereas David simply stated "I have sinned",
Shaul attempted to offer a reason for why he acted in the way that he did,
claiming that it was due to the pressure of the people. By attempting to
offer an excuse, Shaul was abrogating his responsibility for the
transgression. The most important element of Teshuva is accepting complete
responsibility for our actions and not attempting to shift the blame. David
was therefore offered a reprieve, having repented completely, while Shaul
was not, for his penitence was lacking.
Focusing upon past experiences and connecting them to present behaviors
often leads to the abrogation of responsibility. The Torah wants us to focus
only upon our actions when doing Teshuva, since we are expected to take
complete responsibility for the transgressions we have perpetrated. Any
attempt during the Teshuva process to identify the behavior as a
manifestation of a past experience is, in actuality, an attempt to mitigate
blame for our actions. Therefore, the Rambam includes the principle of free
choice in the Laws of Teshuva, for it is the ability to choose right from
wrong that holds us completely accountable for our choices. Having
proclivities or propensities from past experiences does not affect our
ability to choose the right course of action. Past experiences or
personality traits only make it a greater challenge to do the right thing; a
person does not have the right to say that he acts the way he does because
that is who he is. Unless a person meets the Halachic criteria that renders
him legally incompetent to make decisions, he must hold himself completely
accountable for all his decisions.
Psychological analysis can be beneficial when used to determine a person's
challenges and the way in which he should address them. But, when used to
deflect responsibility, it is harmful, for the behavior becomes entrenched
within the person and creates excuses for his actions. The Talmud teaches
that there are two forms of "refu'ah" - "healing", the healing of sickness
and the healing that follows Teshuva, as is stated in the verse "veshav
verafa lo" - "and he will repent and he will be healed".9 It is generally
understood that this form of healing addresses the healing for the damage to
our souls which is caused by the sins that we perform. However, this healing
can also be understood as the healing that Hashem affords us after Teshuva,
to remove those underlying forces which created our propensity to act in a
sinful manner.
During the ten days of repentance, Hashem, who is our Healer, is closer to
us and waiting for us to call upon Him. Therefore, during this time it is
easier to remove the underlying causes of our malevolent behavior. Hashem
will remove these causes, as long as we take complete responsibility for our
actions.
1.Yad Hilchos Teshuva 2:6
2.Yad ibid Chapter 5
3. Yuma 22a
4.Shmuel I Chapter 15
5.Yuma ibid
6.Shmuel II 12:13
7.Shmuel I 6:24
8.ibid
9.Megilla 17b