Parshas Devarim
That's Not What Friends Are For
The Talmud identifies the episode of Kamtza and Bar Kamtza as the incident
which precipitated the destruction of Jerusalem. An individual who made a
banquet sent an attendant to invite his friend Kamtza. However, the
attendant erred, inviting Bar Kamtza instead. When the host saw Bar Kamtza
sitting amongst the guests at his banquet, he proclaimed "Let see that man
is the enemy of that man. What are you doing here?" He subsequently
proceeded to evict Bar Kamtza. The Talmud relates that to avenge his public
humiliation, Bar Kamtza went to the Roman authorities and slandered the
Jews, which ultimately resulted in the tragic destruction of Jerusalem{1}.
The aforementioned narrative is an illustration of the fact that the Beis
Hamikdash was destroyed as a result of "sinas chinam" - "baseless
hatred{2}." What is baseless hatred? Unless a person has psychopathic
tendencies, why would he hate for no reason?
The host's reaction, "Let see that man is the enemy of that man" requires
further elaboration. The general interpretation of this passage is that Bar
Kamtza is the host's enemy. Why would the host refer to himself in the third
person, as "that man"? Furthermore, if this is an example of baseless
hatred, the host's reaction should be visceral; why does he speak in an
analytical tone, "Let see"? Finally, why is it Kamtza and Bar Kamtza who are
denoted as being responsible for the destruction of Jerusalem? Should not
the host be held accountable rather than Kamtza?
A person usually does not harbor feelings of hatred for another human being
unless he perceives that that individual has either harmed him or possesses
something which he deserves. However, there is an exception to this norm
which has unfortunately divided Jewish communities throughout the world from
the time of their inception; that is, the perception that a person's friends
may not associate with his enemies, and for them to do so would be
considered betrayal. A person with such a perception expects his friends to
feel the same disdain for his enemies as he does, to hate his enemies simply
because he does; this is "sinas chinam" - "baseless hatred".
The original dispute in the Talmud was between Kamtza and Bar Kamtza, as
indicated by the host's reaction "Let see that man (Bar Kamtza) is an enemy
of that man (Kamtza)"; the host is not referring to himself in the third
person, rather he is referring to his friend Kamtza. Therefore, the host
does not react emotionally, but with the intellectual understanding of a
person who maintains the perception that since Bar Kamtza is an enemy of his
friend Kamtza, he too should hate Bar Kamtza. It is for this reason that the
Talmud states that Jerusalem was destroyed because of Kamtza and Bar Kamtza;
it was their dispute coupled with Kamtza's insistence that his friends not
associate with Bar Kamtza which precipitated the host's sinas chinam.
1.Gittin 55b
2.Yoma 9b
It's Your Responsibility Too
"These are the words that Moshe spoke to all Yisroel..."(1:1)
Sefer Devarim begins with Bnei Yisroel at the threshold of
Eretz Yisroel. The entire Sefer spans the last five weeks of Moshe's life
and records the rebuke that Moshe gave to Bnei Yisroel prior to his death.
Parshas Devarim enumerates a list of places where Moshe spoke to Bnei
Yisroel{1}. The Midrash notes that there is no historical basis upon which
to substantiate the existence of these places, rather their names are veiled
allusions to all of the transgressions perpetrated by Bnei Yisroel while
they were in the desert{2}. Rashi comments that Moshe only alluded to the
transgressions, rather than mentioning them explicitly because of the
dignity of Bnei Yisroel{3}. Throughout the earlier sections of the Torah we
find Bnei Yisroel harshly castigated for these inappropriate actions and
their transgressions magnified. Why is this rebuke different than those
delivered in earlier parshios?
The verse emphasizes that Moshe spoke "to the entire nation of Israel" - "el
Kol Yisroel{4}." Rashi cites the Sifri who explains that everyone had to be
present, for if Moshe had only rebuked some of Bnei Yisroel, those who were
not present would have claimed that had they been there, they would have
been able to defend themselves from Moshe's accusations. Therefore, it was
necessary for the entire Bnei Yisroel to be present, so that no one could
exclude himself from Moshe's critique{5}. Again we find an element of this
rebuke which does not exist in any prior castigation.
In order to explain the aforementioned difficulty, it is first necessary to
address another problem. The Midrash interprets the names of the places
where Moshe spoke to Bnei Yisroel as an allusion to their sins. Among the
sins recorded are the complaints which occurred immediately after leaving
Egypt, the spies' evil speech, the golden calf, dissatisfaction with the
manna, and Korach's rebellion. Almost all of these transgressions were not
committed by the people who stood before Moshe, rather by the "dor
hamidbar", the generation of people in the desert who were no longer living.
Why did Moshe castigate the people for the sins of the earlier generation?
According to Torah law, an individual can be held accountable for the sins
of his parents only if he continues in their evil path. If he does not
follow in the evil ways of his parents, he is not held accountable for their
behavior{6}. However, this law is only true on an individual level. On a
national level, responsibility for the transgressions of earlier generations
is always borne by the citizens of the nation, even if the citizens have no
connection to the misdeeds of their ancestors. The reason for this is that a
citizen of a nation is part of the same constant entity as that to which his
predecessors belonged. He is a shareholder in the unchanging corporate
entity which defines the nation, and as such, is responsible for any
transgressions or atrocities perpetrated by the national entity. Culpability
is not dependent upon whether or not the individual was involved in the misdeed.
Moshe was teaching the generation entering Eretz Yisroel that it was their
responsibility to rectify the damage caused by their predecessors. They
could not disassociate themselves from the actions of their ancestors by
claiming that they were not pursuing the misdeeds of the earlier
generations. Moshe was addressing them as the inheritors of the corporate
entity of Israel, not as the children of the generation that left Egypt.
Consequently, since they were not the perpetrators of these acts, they were
not subject to the same harsh castigation as the earlier generation, and
these acts were not magnified as they were in earlier sections of the Torah
which addressed the perpetrators directly.
It is specifically this form of rebuke which required the presence of the
entire nation. Since they did not perpetuate the acts for which Moshe was
criticizing them, they could have had the misconception that as long as they
themselves did not engage in the same grievous behavior, they could not be
held accountable for those sins. Therefore, Moshe required that all of Bnei
Yisroel be present so that he could explain to them that their culpability
stemmed from their national responsibility, and as such, they were required
to rectify the wrongdoings of their ancestors.
1.1:1
2.Avos D'Rav Nosson 34:1
3.1:1
4.Ibid
5.Ibid
6.Berachos 7a, Rashi Shemos 34:7