Rambam
Rabbi Yitzchok Etshalom
Talmud Torah 4:1
1: One should only teach Torah to a proper student - one whose
deeds are pleasant, or to a person whose behavior is unknown. If
someone had bad customs, one should first bring him back to the
good ways, makes sure that he sticks to these ways, and then take
him to the *Beit haMidrash* (Study Hall) and teach him Torah. The
Sages said that anyone who teaches a dishonest person is like
someone who throws a stone at Mercury, (which is the way that
that idol was worshipped), for it is written, "As one who binds a
stone in a sling, so is one who gives honor to a fool". (Mishlei
[Proverbs] 26:8) Honor refers to Torah, as it is written, "The
wise shall inherit honor". (Mishlei 3:35). Similarly, one should
not learn from a teacher who does not have good ways, even though
he may be very learned and everybody needs him (= his knowledge),
until he returns to the proper path, for it is written, "For the
Kohen's lips should keep knowledge, and they will seek Torah from
him, for he is a messenger of the Lord of Hosts". (Malakhi 2:7)
The Sages said: If the teacher resembles a messenger of God, seek
Torah from his mouth, and if not, do not seek Torah from his
mouth.
Q1: Why shouldn't we teach Torah to everyone? Shouldn't we trust
that the greatness of the Torah's instructions and wisdom will
bring these "unpleasant" people back to the right path?
HH (H.H.): There is the risk
that the "unpleasant" people become learned but do not go back to
the right path. In this case there would be desecration of the
Name.
YE (Yitz Etshalom): I believe that there are
two levels of inclusion in the process of Torah - what we
commonly refer to as "outreach" and "membership". Certainly, we
should reach out to every Jew, no matter how far from Torah, and
encourage him or her to come closer to a life of Torah and
Mitzvot. However, in order to be included in the membership of
the Beit Midrash, we want to insure that the person is not a
negative influence, nor will he bring a bad name to our Beit
Midrash and its members.
Q2: The metaphor (teaching a lout = worshipping Mercury) is odd.
Why idol-worship at all, and why this particular form of
idol-worship?
Q3: The Talmud (Hagiga 15b) discusses the problem of studying
with a teacher whose behavior is not praiseworthy - yet, in the
end, justifies such study, at least in the case of R. Meir's
studying from Acher. Why doesn't R accept this justification?
YF (Yitzchok Fishman ): On the
subject of not learning from a teacher with bad Midos I heard
something in the name of Rabbi Aharon Kotler zt'l. In the Sephira
period we are in right now 24,000 of Rebbi Akiva's students died
because they showed disrespect to each other. Their disrespect
was on their level and even Rebbi Akiva - who preached your your
friend like you love yourself - did not notice it, beacuse if he
had he would have surely told them to ment their ways so that
they shouldn't die. Rabbi Aharon Kotler said that these 24,00
students were going to be the ones to teach Torah to the next
generation, but we see that it is better that if the torah is
going to be taught by someone with even the slightest flaw it is
better that it should not be taught.
YE: Refer to the Yahrzeit shiur at the end of this posting.
Q4: How much does the teacher need to resemble a messenger of
God? Can he be human? May the teacher play basketball with his
students? May the teacher share his experiences at a concert the
night before? May he even go to a concert? In short - what does
it mean to resemble a messenger of God - and how far do we take
that idea?
HH: IMHO, resembling a messenger of God refers to righteousness,
not to asceticism.
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