Torah.org Home Subscribe Services Support Us
 
Print Version

Email this article to a friend

The Path of the Just

Ch. 5 (Part 3)

There’s only so much time in the day, yet so much and so many beckon. Besides family and friends, Torah and mitzvot, and work, each and every small and not-so-small thing calls to us and demands our attention. And here we are, trying to be cautious and self-reflective, and thus making even more demands on ourselves. Surely something has to give.

The small and not-so-small things would have to leave us alone for longer stretches of time than the important ones. We wouldn’t need to abandon them to be sure since they matter, too. They could relax us, for example, or allow us to assuage our anxieties and to set mind and spirit free enough to hurry back to the more serious things. For everything permissible and ethical -- no matter how humble -- is granted us as a gift from G-d to be used to good ends. It’s just that they matter less in the end, and we would do best to consider our need for them here and now.

Family and friends deserve more of our time and attention; our jobs have their own timetables and they urge us onward more=2 0persistently; each mitzvah has its own time, season, and environment, and we’re to dedicate our whole beings to them alone when they arise; and Torah-study is essential since it grants us perspectives on the smaller things, family and friends, work, and the whole mitzvah-system, so it cries out for attention. And so, one would think that there’s simply no time left for anything else. But he would be lacking one essential element of spiritual excellence -- the “setting aside of specific time for reflecting upon your actions and rectifying them”, as Ramchal terms it, which we cited before.

Because “if you’re wise, then any free time you might have from your everyday concerns wouldn’t be wasted. You’d grab hold of it and not let go” and use it to reflect upon “s piritual concerns and (upon) rectifying your Divine service”. There’s a lot to be said about that point, but suffice it to say that we’re to sit apart for a time once a week, perhaps, or once a month to think “Big Thoughts” as they’re called.

We’re to wonder why we were born, what we’re meant to do in this world, what our ultimate goal is in life, what we need to improve in ourselves, what matters little and can be done without and what deserves ultimate allegiance. Ramchal has already answered these questions earlier on, but his charge here for us is to take the questioning process itself to heart, and to make the time needed for it a priority in our lives. For, otherwise, few of the other things will matter in the end, since we wouldn’t have had the impetus to go forward in our beings.

So what has to “give” -- to refer to our realization above -- is a life without reflection. For such a life is rife with wasted time, while a reflective life is full, vital, and momentous, and each of its moments is substantive.


Text Copyright © 2007 by Rabbi Yaakov Feldman and Torah.org


 

ARTICLES ON SHEMINI AND THE OMER:

View Complete List

“Letter to my Son Akiva” (born 10 years ago, on Erev LAG B’OMER)
Jon Erlbaum - 5771

We are Toddlers Before Hashem
Shlomo Katz - 5760

Friends
Rabbi Pinchas Avruch - 5765

Frumster - Orthodox Jewish Dating

Fire From Heaven
Rabbi Aron Tendler - 5758

The Chasida - Fowl Play
Rabbi Eliyahu Hoffmann - 5763

Fit For Human Consumption
Rabbi Eliyahu Hoffmann - 5759

Looking for a Chavrusah?

A Count of Anticipation
Rabbi Yehudah Prero - 5758

Real Spirituality
Rabbi Yaakov Menken - 5755

Cleave to Your Friends
Shlomo Katz - 5758

> Things We Don't Know
Shlomo Katz - 5772

Power to Transition
Rabbi Pinchas Winston - 5771

To Live As A Jew
Shlomo Katz - 5774

ArtScroll

Can You Hear It
Rabbi Aron Tendler - 5766

The "Eighth"
Rabbi Pinchas Winston - 5762

The Appropriate Time To Offer Atonement For The Sale of Yosef
Rabbi Yissocher Frand - 5770

Discipline and Silence
Rabbi Berel Wein - 5760



Project Genesis

Torah.org Home


Torah Portion

Jewish Law

Ethics

Texts

Learn the Basics

Seasons

Features

TORAHAUDIO

Ask The Rabbi

Knowledge Base




Help

About Us

Contact Us



Free Book on Geulah!




Torah.org Home
Torah.org HomeCapalon.com Copyright Information