Rosh Chodesh - A Special Holiday for Women
The Gemora in Er'chin (10b) tells us that even though Rosh Chodesh is
referred to as a "holiday," the day does not have the great measure of
holiness which would necessitate cessation from work, as we find on the
holidays and on Shabbos. However, the Shulchan Aruch (Orech Chayim 417:1)
writes that there is a custom that women do not do work on Rosh Chodesh, and
that custom is a good and proper one. The Rama adds to this that if the
custom is to do certain types of work but not others, one should follow that
custom. The Shaarei Teshuva drives home the point that cessation from work is
a custom only for women by quoting others who say that men who have adopted
the custom not to work on Rosh Chodesh are ignorant. What is the reason why
women specifically are singled out to observe an added measure of holiness on
Rashi in the tractate of Megilla (22b) quotes a Medrash that explains that at
the time when the nation of Israel was planning the construction of the
Golden Calf, the women were approached and asked to donate their gold jewelry
for the cause. The women, realizing that this scheme was totally
inappropriate and even sinful, steadfastly refused to give over any of their
gold. Because of their firm commitment to Moshe and their faith in G-d
which manifested itself in the refusal to hand over their gold and their
distance from the sin of the Golden Calf, women were rewarded with having
Rosh Chodesh being a special holy day for themselves.
Why specifically was Rosh Chodesh given to women? The Menoras HaMaor explains
that each of the three major holidays represents one of our forefathers.
Pesach is representative of Avraham, because it was on Pesach that Avraham
was informed by the angels that he was going to have a son. Shavuos is
representative of Yitzchak because before the Torah was given (which Shavuos
comemorates), a shofar made from the ram that was sacrificed instead of
Yitzchak was sounded to signal the monumental event. Sukkos is representative
of Yaakov because we find in the Torah that Yaakov built booths in a place he
named Sukkos. However, the three major holidays are not the only festive
occasions which are associated with someone. Originally, the twelve months
were representative of and carried significance to each of the twelve
tribes. Because the tribes sinned by the incident of the Golden Calf, this
"holiday" was taken away from them as a punishment. It was given instead to
those who did not involve themselves with this incident, and were therefore
deserving of reward: the righteous women of Israel.
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