Re: The Model 'Baalebos' (head of a household)

Akiva & Gila Atwood (atwood@netvision.net.il)
Wed, 17 Sep 1997 11:45:51 +0200

It seems to me that many of our traditional sources promote the existence
of baalebosim. The Talmud is quite clear that a father has an obligation
to teach his son a trade. Our Tannaim were also involved in mundane work to
complement their Torah study - and we have the quote in Pirkei Avos about
Torah and Derech Eretz (way of the world)...as well as many other such
sources.

The Baal Shem Tov taught that there are many ways to serve Hashem (each
person according to his strengths and talents). A businessman who is
scrupulously honest, sets a time for Torah, has kavanna (focus) in
davenning and is meticulous about ma'aser cesafim( Charity) is certainly
ovaid Hashem (serving G-d). There are quite a few living examples we can
think of, who would probably be embarassed if we should mention them by name.

According to one source, the lights of the Menora of the Beis Hamikdash
(Temple) also demonstrate the equality of the Kollel man and the baalebos-
the lights on one side of the menora represent the one, the lights on the
other side represent the other and all the lights shine on the same level,
in perfect symmetry.

Toldos Aharon chassidus promotes a combination of Talmud Torah and parnasa
(working for a living). All chassidim are expected to go out and make an
honest living - and also to spend some significant time in the Beis
Hamidrash (study hall). Jerusalem has benefitted greatly by the "wordly"
efforts of these chassidim - the Beis Hachlamah and the Beis Hapletos to
give but two examples.

And may I mention the Torah Temimah and the Chochmas Adam, notable seforim
written by "baalebosim." Earning a living is by NO means a negative
reflection of a person's Torah knowledge or yiras shamayim (fear of heaven)
- that should be obvious! Generally, we must be careful of labels - which
tend to lead to division and misunderstand

Akiva & Gila Atwood
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