*****************************In Loving Memory of Rabbi Ephraim "Freddy" Fisher. Rabbi Fisher was a loving and affectionate member of our kehillah, Young Israel of Century City. As we watched his strength ebb over the last couple of years, we were constantly strengthened by his warmth and good humor. We are saddened by his passing and will never forget the spirit with which Freddy animated everyone around him. May his wife and sons be comforted among the mourners of Tziyyon and Yerushalayim. Y'hi Zikhro Barukh - may his memory be a blessing..
PARASHAT HAYYE SARAH
by Yitzchak Etshalom
"GO TO MY COUNTRY"
Pursuant to Sarah's burial, we are told of Eliezer's mission to find a wife for Yitzchak:
Avraham was now old and well advanced in years, and Hashem had blessed him in every way. He said to the chief servant in his household, the one in charge of all that he had:
... I want you to swear by Hashem, the God of heaven and the God of earth, that you will not get a wife for my son from the daughters of the Canaanites, among whom I am living, but will go to my country and my own relatives and get a wife for my son Yitzchak. The servant asked him, What if the woman is unwilling to come back with me to this land? Shall I then take your son back to the country you came from?
Make sure that you do not take my son back there, Avraham said.
... If the woman is unwilling to come back with you, then you will be released from this oath of mine. Only do not take my son back there.(B'resheet 24:1-8).
Eliezer's mission is clear - find a wife for Yitzchak from among Avraham's extended family who will come back to K'na'an (Eretz Yisra'el) and join the Avrahamic tribe. The one condition which is stressed by Avraham is not to bring Yitzchak back there.
Upon arriving at the old family home (Aram Naharayim), Eliezer prays to God for help in completing his mission:
Then he prayed,
O Hashem, God of my master Avraham, give me success today, and show kindness to my master Avraham. See, I am standing beside this spring, and the daughters of the townspeople are coming out to draw water. May it be that when I say to a girl, Please let down your jar that I may have a drink, and she says, Drink, and I'll water your camels too - let her be the one you have chosen for your servant Yitzchak. By this I will know that you have shown kindness to my master.
How does Eliezer's request of God conform to the stated goals of his mission? Avraham asked him to find a young woman who would come back to K'na'an to marry Yitzchak - and he set up a "hospitality test" for the local girls!
Before addressing this question, I'd like to pose a greater question about Yitzchak - one that is the focus of Midrashic and medieval commentary: From the time that Avraham is told to stay his hand from Yitzchak (B'resheet 22:12) until Rivkah is brought back with Eliezer as his fiancee, Yitzchak is nowhere to be found. He doesn't return to B'er Sheva with Avraham after the Akedah (Binding of Yitzchak - ch. 22), nor is he present at his own mother's burial. (There are some who posit that he was present but not active - and therefore not mentioned - at both of these scenes; however, the simple reading of text implies that Yitzchak is not present at all).
The Akedah was undoubtedly the most critical point of Yitzchak's life - one which shaped the essential dimensions of his personality. The Midrash (B'resheet Rabbah 65:6) comments that as Avraham was looking down at his son on the altar, the angels were sobbing in heaven in anticipation of his death. At that time, the heavens opened and their angelic tears fell into the eyes of Yitzchak - leading to his early blindness (see B'resheet 27:1). The implication of this Midrash is that the events which took place on that mountaintop profoundly affected Yitzchak for the rest of his life.
What happened to Yitzchak atop the mountain, bound and lying on top of the altar, that changed him so deeply?
When we look back at God's original directive to Avraham regarding Yitzchak, we find an ambiguous command: v'Ha'alehu sham l'Olah (B'resheet 22:2) - which might be translated take him up there as an Olah - meaning offer him up; or it might be understood as take him up there for an Olah - meaning show him how to perform an offering (see Rashi and Ralbag). Indeed, according to some opinions, this was the "test" of Avraham - to see how he would respond to an ambigiuous message with cataclysmic overtones.
THE RESULT OF THE AKEDAH
There is, however, a third way of understanding the phrase in question which may explain Yitzchak's disappearance in the subsequent narratives. Unlike the Hatat, Asham (expiation offerings) and Shlamim (peace offering), the Olah is totally given over to God. No part of the Olah is eaten by people. Within the matrix of offerings, the Olah represents the dimension of our personalities which longs to be totally bound up with God, unconcerned with (and unfettered by) mundane concerns.
YITZCHAK BECOMES A LIVING OLAH
Now, let's take a fresh look at the command:
Take him up to be an Olah - in other words, do not offer him up (i.e. sacrifice him), but make him an Olah - an offering which is solely dedicated to God. Indeed, Avraham's hand is only stayed with reference to Yitzchak's physical life, but, following the ruling of the Mishnah (Zevahim 9:1), once an offering has been brought up to the altar, it can never lose that sense of sanctity. Yitzchak became, from the moment of his binding, the human, living Olah. His life was no longer one of earthly concerns and interactions - he became an other-worldly man. This may be the implication of his not returning from the mountain - because, in the greater sense of things, he never came down. He was no longer a child of Avraham and Sarah, but his own separate, sanctified being. This would explain the text's silence about his participation in Sarah's funeral. This also explains why Yitzchak, unlike Avraham and Yaakov, is not allowed to leave the holy land (see Gen. 26:3) - he is, in the words of the Rabbis, an Olah T'mimah - a perfect Olah.
Back to our original question: Now that Sarah has died and Avraham turns his concerns to the continuity of the faith community, he appoints Eliezer to find the appropriate partner for Yitzchak. Avraham knows, from his own experience, that in order to carry on the mission of spreading God's word, it takes another Avraham - someone who knows how to reach out to others, who can interact with this world in a sanctified manner, someone who can keep one foot in the mundane and the other in the holy. This is no longer Yitzchak, as he is a separate being, dedicated to God and separated from this world.
He sends Eliezer with a mission - to find someone who is willing to leave Aram/Charan, separate from family and move west, to the land of the future and the promise. This so strongly echoes Avraham's own beginnings, that Eliezer well understands that his master essentially wants another Avraham as a daughter-in-law. He must find someone who is not only willing to leave home, but someone who exemplifies Avraham's attributes and values. The trait which most typifies Avraham is kindness - and that is most obviously expressed by him in his hospitality. Therefore, the litmus test which any potential fiancee must pass, is the test of hospitality. Will this young woman be capable of carrying on the Avrahamic tradition of Kiruv, bringing people closer to God's truth through kindness, love and hospitality? Fortunately, the young woman passed with flying colors - and our future was secured.
Text Copyright © 1997 by Rabbi Yitzchak Etshalom.
The author is Educational Coordinator of the Jewish Studies Institute of the Yeshiva of Los Angeles
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