Parshas Ki Seitzei
Xtreme Law1
“Hard cases make bad law.” So goes a familiar legal adage. Laws do best when
they apply to the colorless, boring, uncomplicated cases that make up
ordinariness. The wisdom of a law sparkles when it addresses the quotidian;
special circumstances crowd out that wisdom, and make it seem inadequate.
Torah, as might be expected, works quite differently. The Torah seems to
make a point of introducing important laws in the context of the extreme,
not the ordinary. Perhaps it is only law of human manufacture that breaks
down when the going gets rough. Divine law can take the heat. Its
principles owe to their connection to a Truth more permanent than the
vicissitudes of human experience. They remain true and applicable over a
greater range of circumstances.
At the beginning of our parshah, we find the Torah moving away from the
themes of Shoftim. Those dealt primarily with the general affairs of the
Torah nation. Those affairs had to be put on sure footing, because the
people were about to enter the Land and settle it. Now the Torah moves to
affairs of family and interpersonal relationships. Until this point, Bnei
Yisroel had lived a largely artificial existence, with all their needs
miraculously addressed by Hashem Himself. The community was centralized,
answering to the authority of Moshe, who received direct instruction from
HKBH. Fewer problems arose, and Moshe was around to put out small fires.
This would all change. The people would fan out across the Land. They would
have to tend to the needs of sustenance, while putting together a national
and community framework. These dramatic changes would place great stress on
families, and remove them from the positive influence of neighbors and
community. (On the other hand, taking charge of family life is one of
challenges that Hashem designed into the normal and expected course of every
Jew’s life. That challenge had been artificially suppressed until now.
Coming into the Land, each head of a household would now have the
opportunity to live the life Hashem designed for us as “normal” human
beings.) It was now crucial to educate the people concerning the values and
institutions that the Torah provides to guide the Jewish family. Our parshah
therefore addresses family life itself, the relationship between the
genders, marriage, the relationship between parents and children, and
children to parents. All of these are put into the context of the Torah’s
expectations that we deal with all important matters through fealty to the
demands of mitzvah-observance, to justice, to brotherly love, and to living
on an elevated moral plane.
How does the Torah introduce this mega-topic? Through an example in the
extreme. The parshah begins with a consideration of the most vulnerable
woman of all – the woman captured in battle. If the captive is not taken as
a wife – after a long process that aims at cooling the Jewish soldier’s
passions and restoring some common sense to his decision – she must be set
free. The Torah assures that she will not be kept around as an object to be
trifled with. Effectively, the Torah proclaims the bodily and sexual
integrity of every woman against the passions of men – and makes this
statement by picking extreme circumstances.
The Torah acted similarly in Parshas Mishpatim, when it first set down the
laws that crafted a stable society, bound and restricted by civil rules that
would make social cohesion possible. The very first example that the Torah
chose to present concerned the marginalized and forgotten members of
society: the criminal (forced into long-term servitude to make restitution
for his theft), and the poorest of the poor (the Jewish servant girl,
apprenticed to a more well-off family in desperation by a father who cannot
provide for her.) Here, too, by focusing on the extreme and unusual, the
Torah makes a powerful point about the need for consistency in justice and
compassion.
In the neighborhood of our parshah, two other examples fit into the same
pattern. The Torah prohibits wanton destruction and even wastefulness. We
are to cherish the utility of all things, and take nothing for granted. The
Torah chooses to plant this lesson in the context of unusual and extreme
circumstances – warfare[2]. Cutting down fruit trees on the front becomes
the instructional modality for teaching us about general destructiveness.
Similarly, the Torah later on will tell us about the need to keep our
general conduct, dress and speech modest, free of provocative attraction and
suggestiveness. We are to keep our immediate environment free of human
wastes and spiritual contaminants when we turn to holier pursuits such as
prayer and Torah study. Here, too, the Torah chooses to use the extreme
example of the military camp[3] – where such niceties are often ignored –
to convey these laws.
The Torah chooses extreme cases to tell us that it will allow no compromise
with its principles. It will not abandon those principles even in unusual
circumstances. From this we are to understand how demanding it is of us in
ordinary and usual circumstances. The Torah is demanding - in the extreme.
1. Based on the Hirsch Chumash, Devarim 21:10
2. Devarim 20:19
3. Devarim 23:10