Dreams, Symbols, and Derashos3
An Almost Perfect Family1
How do we balance our understanding of the greatness of the Founding Family
of our people with the reality that they showed deficiencies at times? The
answer may be that even their deficiencies contributed to the development of
the Torah nation.
The key may be an implied contrast in the pasuk that introduces us to the
young Yosef. It would be a mistake to see the word “batzon” as the object of
phrase “he was a shepherd.” This erroneous translation would then mean only
that Yosef was a shepherd of flocks of sheep. Rather, batzon indicates the
context of the preceding phrase. The Torah tells us that he shepherded with
his “brothers,” meaning the sons of Leah. But it informs us that the time he
spend with those brothers was only batzon – only during working hours. It
means to underscore that Yosef’s life was artificially and unsatisfactorily
split between his vocation and the rest of his day. He spent the work part
of the day with some of his brothers; by contrast, he spent the na’ar part –
the part in which he lived out the development of his youth - with the sons
of the Bilhah and Zilpah.
What could this mean? It points to the unfortunate dilemma of Yosef’s early
years. The rest of his brothers had the advantage of both a nurturing
mother, and the companionship of brothers with whom each was particularly
close. Yosef had neither. He lost his mother while very young, and he never
quite found unambiguous brotherhood. Binyamin was the brother for whom he
could have had the greatest affinity. Because he was younger, though,
Binyamin did not offer Yosef the close companionship he needed. With the
sons of Leah – who like Rachel was a full wife, in contradistinction to the
maidservants – the relationship remained somehow a professional one. When
work was over, he gravitated to a different group, the sons of the
It might very well have been some youthful vanity that took him there. In
the last parshah, we saw that while Yaakov may have treated all four of his
wives equally, the distinction between them was never fully erased. It is
likely that some of the hierarchy of the way the women viewed themselves
continued on in their children, with the sons of Bilhah and Zilpah feeling
themselves not quite on an equal footing with the sons of Leah. Yosef, the
one destined to rule, may have been drawn to those who would more easily
stroke his ego.
Should such subtle differences in status exist in Yaakov’s household?
Shouldn’t all the brothers have lived in harmony and complete equality,
united in their understanding of their great Divinely-ordained mission? Our
first reaction is to be confounded by the lack of absolute unity among them.
This, however, would be naïve and unperceptive.
The ideal Jewish household does not grow out of ideals that are grasped and
shared by a group of human beings, no matter how lofty. The Jewish household
is a product of our G-d given Torah, and of the destiny to which we have
We require certain personality tools to nationally achieve what Hashem has
in store for us. Chazal call us the strongest and fiercest of the nations.
Utilized properly, this capacity for might, this tenacity in the face of
adversity would allow us to survive the challenges of our history. It might
also, at an early stage of our development, predispose us to some unpleasant
capacities, such as revenge. Indeed, we even detect some jealousy and hatred
in the actions of the shevatim, likely stemming from the same source.
If we had to extrapolate forward, what would we predict from the nation that
would grow from such a clan? We would certainly expect to see this
fierceness express itself at times in terrible crimes of murder and
immorality. Instead, the heirs of this family became a people known for its
humaneness, for its compassion and kindness to each other. History would
subject them to conditions that, among other people, would pit father
against son, and siblings against each other. We would have expected that
the seeds of discord planted at the infancy of our people would sprout
bumper crops of intra-familial ugliness and communal discord.
That is not what happened. The might and fierceness in the Jewish psyche
served our people well, rather than turn into a festering sore. We can find
only one explanation for this. Torah did its job. The element that turned a
potential problem into a national asset was Hashem’s Law that shaped and
guided us. Our success did not come from ourselves, but was given to us. The
first manifest victory of Divine law was that it conquered us! It tamed and
reshaped our nature, and steeled us for survival in the most difficult of
The small faults and imperfections that we find, then, should not disturb
us. To the contrary, they show the greatness of Torah in two ways. They make
it apparent that Hashem’s Torah is an effective agent of character change
and development. Furthermore, they are the raw stuff out of which the
Torah’s master craftsmanship molds sublime beauty and utility.
Each one according to the interpretation of his dream
The word פתרון is related to פטר, as in פטר רחם, the opening of the womb.
Other Hebrew words convey the idea of opening, but פטר implies one that is
organic, from the inside, rather than forced from the outside. We could not
ask for a better word to describe the unlocking of the hidden content of a
Interpretation is a risky business. It is all too easy to approach the
subject with violence – to force any one of many possible interpretations
coming from the outside, satisfying some need of the interpreter. What is
needed, however, is an interpretation that successfully reveals meaning from
the inside. (The explanation of the dreams of Yosef’s cellmates was close
but elusive. The similarity between them led both to believe that the dreams
contained a significant prediction. Had the dream contained a reference to
three days rather than three vines, the wine butler would have understood in
an instant. His dream needed one small element properly explained from
within the dream itself.)
Interpretation is analogous to the development of a flower from a closed
bud. From this one, closed form, all that is contained therein naturally
ensues. This is true not only in regard to dreams, but in interpreting every
symbol, and in understanding the inner meaning of any pasuk in the Torah.
Through the hermeneutical principles suitably called derashos - from the
word meaning “inquiring within” – we arrive at a פתרון in which the inner
sense of the verse stands apparent and revealed. In all these areas the key
is to be able to read from within, rather than suggest meanings from without.
 Based on the Hirsch Chumash, Bereishis 37:2
 See his comments above 33:6-7, where the difference in background of the women displayed itself in a different capacity to humbly bow to Esav.
 Based on the Hirsch Chumash, Bereishis 40:5
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