Drasha - Parshas Toldos
Volume 2 Issue 6
by Rabbi Mordechai Kamenetzky
"I am going to die!"
That is what Esau wailed as he returned home on the afternoon of Abraham's funeral after a rage-filled
rampage of murder and promiscuity. Our Sages explain that these acts were a rebellious reaction to the
death of his saintly grandfather. The Torah tells us that he returned home, "hungry and exhausted." His
brother, Yaakov, understood Esau well and seized the moment. He offered him a steaming bowl of
immediate tangible satisfaction, cloaked as hot red lentil soup, in exchange for an intangible piece of
spirituality, his birthright. Esau rationalizes. "Behold," he exclaims, "I am going to die so what do I need
a birthright for?" (Genesis 25:32) Obviously, Esau had no regard for the birthright or the spiritual
ramifications it carried, ie. blessings, priesthood, and most important, the privilege to be the guiding force
behind the traditions of his parental lineage.
He agreed to trade it all for a bowl of lentil soup.
Amazingly enough, when Jacob claims his allotment and receives the blessings from Isaac, Esau goes into
a frenzy. He wants to kill Jacob over something for which he claimed to have had no use.
Where are the roots of this transformation?
Rav Chaim Soleveitchik was once approached by a wealthy man who owned a
slaughterhouse. The man asked Rav Chaim to inspect a recently slaughtered steer that was worth a large
sum of money. The steer had a questionable infection on its lung that might have rendered it non-kosher.
Rav Chaim looked at the animal and shook his head. "Your fears prove true," he said. "I'm sorry but this
animal does have a diseased lung and is not kosher." The man accepted the ruling with an open mind and
heart. "It's all right Rebbe," he replied, "I can afford to make a sacrifice once in a while."
A month later, the same person appeared before Rav Chaim together with another man. They were
arguing about an insignificant sum of money, and the wealthy man insisted that they present their case
before the Rabbi. Once again, Rabbi Soleveitchik issued a ruling against the butcher, but this time,
however, his reaction was very different. He ranted and raved that the Rav did not know how to ajudicate
even a simple question. He threatened the Rabbi and verbally assaulted him. Rabbi Soleveitchik stood
silent through the man's tirade, and eventually his children expelled the man from their home.
"Wasn't this the man that revered your judgment regarding the cow? Wasn't his loss in that case almost
one hundred times the amount of this particular loss? Why was he so amenable then and so incensed
now?" his children asked.
Rav Chaim smiled. "This man is basically a good person. He didn't even mind taking a large loss when I
prohibited the sale of the meat. However, today I awarded someone money that he perceived to be his.
People are willing to lose for Heaven's sake, but they can not handle the fact that someone is getting what
they believe is theirs."
Esau had to make a choice -- birthright or soup. He chose soup. The birthright and all its spiritual values
held no meaning for him, until his brother reaped the reward. At that moment Esau declared that "the
days of my father's mourning shall come soon and I shall kill my brother Jacob." The Torah sums up his
frustration exactly the way Rav Chaim explained. "And Esau hated Jacob for the blessings that he (Jacob)
received from his father." Esau was not bothered about the blessings that he lost. Esau was bothered about
the blessings that Jacob won! Esau was willing to sell the blessings. When the sale bore the fruit of its
ramification, Esau went on a rampage. He was willing to abandon his entire spiritual future for a bowl of
soup, as long as no one else would profit. When they did profit however, then things turned very sour. We
all should look at the personal and inherent ramifications of our own losses and gains, and not judge
ourselves by how someone else fares. We'd all be much happier!
Dedicated by Mr. and Mrs. Charles Steinberg in memory of Irving
Drasha is the internet edition of
Fax-Homily -- a project of the Henry & Myrtle Hirsch Foundation
Text Copyright © 1996 Rabbi M. Kamenetzky and Project Genesis, Inc.
The author is the Associate Dean of the
Yeshiva of South Shore.
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