Parshios Acharei Mos & Kedoshim
The Decline
These divrei Torah were adapted from the hashkafa portion of Rabbi
Yissocher Frand's Commuter Chavrusah Tapes on the weekly portion:
Tape #414 -- Giving An Injection to one's father. Good Shabbos!
The Prosperity of Egypt and Canaan Contributed To Their Moral Decline
The end of Parshas Achrei Mos contains the section of the Parsha that
deals with forbidden relationships (Arayos). This Torah portion, which is
also read during the Mincha service of Yom Kippur, is introduced with the
exhortation "Like the deeds of the land of Egypt wherein you have dwelt,
you shall not do; and like deeds of the land of Canaan where I am bringing
you thereto, you shall not do. You shall not walk in the ways of their
practices." [Vayikra 18:3]
The Jews were going "from the frying pan into the fire" in terms of the
moral depravity of the surrounding population. Both the land of Egypt and
the land of Canaan were known for their despicable and nauseating forms of
immorality. G-d therefore warned the Jewish people not to mimic the
activities or mores of the societies that they have witnessed or will be
witnessing. The Torah then listed the different forbidden relationships.
Rav Dovid Feinstein notes an apparent anomaly in the Torah's language. The
Torah does not warn against mimicking the deeds of the Egyptians or the
Canaanites. It rather warns against mimicking the deeds of the LAND of Egypt
and the LAND of Canaan. Rav Dovid Feinstein deduces that the activities of
the people of Egypt and the people of Canaan must have had something to do
with the LAND of Egypt and the LAND of Canaan. The land added some facet
that enabled the people to be engaged in such moral depravity. What facet
did the land add to the moral depravity?
We know from several sources that these two lands were exceptionally
fertile and affluent. For thousands of years, Egypt prospered by virtue of
the fact that the Nile would overflow every year, flooding its banks,
causing the surrounding land to be extremely fertile. Egypt was an
extremely prosperous country.
We learn from the spies' visit to the Land of Canaan that the fruits of
the land were so huge that it took eight people just to carry back a
cluster of grapes [Sotah 34a]. The land of Canaan was blessed with
tremendous agricultural success, and that brought affluence to the entire
country.
This is the reason why the people were so disgustingly immoral. There is
an inverse connection, unfortunately, between prosperity and the level of
a nation's morals. One does not have to be a social scientist to come to
the conclusion that western society in general and America in particular
is very prosperous and very affluent. But at the same time, we are witness
to a society that has lost its moral compass.
We are experiencing a replay of "the actions of the LAND of Egypt." When
things are so abundant and society has it so well, people tend to lose their
moral standing. Unfortunately, we, the inhabitants of such a society, get
caught up in this. It has been said that Jews over the centuries have
learned to cope with the trials and tribulations ("nisoyonos") of poverty.
But we have not learned to deal with the "nisoyon" of affluence. The morals
of society rub off on us. The Torah is hinting at this idea through the
unique formulation of its warning concerning the actions of the LAND of
Egypt and the LAND of Canaan.
Rabbis Safeguard Against Assimilation, As It Leads To Intermarriage
The last pasuk [verse] of Parshas Achrei Mos states: "You shall safeguard My
charge that these abominable traditions that were done before you not be
done, and not make yourselves impure through them. I am Hashem, your G-d."
[Vayikra 18:30]. The Talmud derives the idea of making a fence around the
Torah from this exhortation to "safeguard" the commandments (Mishmeres
l'mishmarti) [Moed Katan 5a; Yevamos 21a].
If people would only observe the strict Biblical commandments and not
observe the Rabbinical safeguards that were added later, we would not
recognize what we now call "observant" Judaism. Shabbos observance is a
totally different experience because of the Rabbinical enactments that
"safeguard" the basic prohibitions of labor. The scope of virtually every
area of halachic restriction that we practice has been greatly expanded by
virtue of the principle of "make a safeguard for My charge."
Sometimes one could question the extent of "Rabbinical fences" and wonder
whether the rabbis didn't go "too far." We look at some "D'Rabanans" and
say, "this is a little too far fetched; we'd never make a mistake over
here." But we need to understand that the Rabbis were extremely wise, and
knew exactly what they were doing. Their basic intent many times was not
so much concern with stopping a specific violation, as with creating a
certain atmosphere. They were interested in establishing a pervasive
attitude.
I recently taught my Yeshiva class about the laws of consuming food prepared
by non-Jews, which are in the Talmud, in Tractate Avodah Zarah. There are
prohibitions against eating food prepared (under certain circumstances) by a
non-Jew; of drinking wine that is so much as touched (under certain
circumstances) by a non-Jew. The rationale behind all of these Rabbinic
prohibitions is "lest we come to intermarry with them" (mi'shum chasnus).
One can ask, if the food only contains Kosher ingredients and I take it into
the confines of my own home, why should the fact that it happened to have
been cooked by a non-Jew be any cause for concern that I might come to marry
a non-Jewish woman? Isn't that far-fetched?
The Rabbis were not worried that if someone ate something cooked by a
non-Jew, they would immediately go out and marry that person. Rather, they
were interested in creating an atmosphere that shouts to us "we've got to
remain separate." Once we start breaking down the little things and start
tampering with the atmosphere, we are quickly left with what we have today
in the United States of America: over fifty percent intermarriage. We no
longer have an atmosphere of separation.
The following is excerpted from a column by the rabbi of a Reform
congregation in Miami, Florida:
"We think that intermarriage leads to assimilation, but it is the other way
around. We marry people like ourselves. The average middle-class Jew is as
different from the average middle class Gentile as your average Hutu is
different from your average Tutsi. I know Rabbis aren't supposed to say
things like this. We are supposed to fight assimilation tooth and nail. But
to be honest I am about as assimilated as you can get. Put me in a lineup of
the average middle class goy [sic] and the only way you could tell us apart
is to play a Jackie Mason tape and see who laughs. The truth is our kids
don't intermarry. They marry people just like themselves. People who eat
stone crabs marry people who eat stone crabs."
The rabbi has it exactly right. People are not intermarrying. They are
marrying people exactly like themselves. The reason why a strictly
religious person would not contemplate marrying a non-Jew (or vice-versa)
is because they are so different. Those who follow the Rabbis' safeguards
live in an environment nearly as different from that of the average middle
class American non-Jew, as either of those environments are different from
that of the average Tutsi. The cross-cultural divide is too great. The
groups are too different from each other, so they do not intermarry. It
would be like marrying someone from a different planet. But if someone
eats like them and talks like them and dresses like them, then it is not
intermarriage at all. It is marrying within one's own kind.
He wrote further: "As far as religion goes they both have the same fake
sense of spirituality. They both believe in a G-d without being able to
define either belief or G-d. They both hold goodness above theology and
righteousness above tradition. Religion does not matter to most of our
kids. We tried to make it matter and we failed. They don't intermarry.
They marry the same kind."
This all started because of an attitude that said, "so what if I go ahead
and eat food cooked by non-Jews? So what if I drink a cup of wine with them?
It's kosher food! It's kosher wine!" Once one breaks down the "safeguard of
My charge" then anything can happen.
Therefore, when we see Rabbinic decrees that sometimes strike us as being
far-fetched or even absurd -- we need to step back and acknowledge that the
Rabbis knew exactly what they were talking about. They wished to create an
attitude and an atmosphere, as the Torah instructs: "Make a safeguard for My
charge."
Those who mock the concept of making a safeguard for the Biblical laws
should go out and look at what is happening in the world. The alternative is
all too readily present for us to painfully witness. People who eat stone
crabs marry people who eat stone crabs.
This write-up is adapted from the hashkafa portion of Rabbi Yissocher
Frand's Commuter Chavrusah Torah Tapes on the weekly Torah Portion. The
halachic topics covered for the current week's portion in this series are:
Tape # 009 - Prohibition Against Using a Razor
Tape # 052 - Prohibition Against Revenge
Tape # 095 - The Mezonos Roll: Does it Exist?
Tape # 143 - Inviting the Non-Observant to Your Shabbos Table
Tape # 190 - The Prohibition of Negiah
Tape # 236 - The Do's & Don'ts of Giving Tochacha
Tape # 280 - "Lo Sa'amod Al Dam Re'echa"
Tape # 326 - Mipnei Seiva Takum: Honoring the Elderly
Tape # 370 - Deserts -- Do They Require a Brocha?
Tape # 414 - Giving an Injection to One's Father
Tape # 458 - Giving Tochacha: Private or Public?
Tape # 502 - Kissui HaDam
Tape # 546 - Treating Mitzvos with Respect
Tape # 590 - Sofaik Be'racha
Tape # 634 - The Prohibition of Hating Another Jew
Tape # 678 - Tochacha: Is Ignorance Bliss?
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Text Copyright © 2004 by Rabbi Yissocher Frand and Torah.org.
Transcribed by David Twersky; Seattle, Washington.
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