Parshas Miketz
These divrei Torah were adapted from the hashkafa portion of Rabbi Yissocher
Frand's Commuter Chavrusah Tapes on the weekly portion: Tape # 397, Lighting
Neiros in Shul; Other Chanukah Issues. Good Shabbos!
Yosef Was Rushed From The Pit
When Pharoah had his famous dream, he asked for interpretations from all his
advisors. The Sar HaMashkim [chamberlain of the cup-bearers] remembered
Yosef and advised Pharoah that Yosef had a good track record for
interpreting dreams. The pasuk [verse] records that when Pharoah sent for
Yosef, "they rushed him from the pit" [Bereshis 41:14].
Nowadays, no one is taken out of prison quickly. There is a tremendous
bureaucracy. There is always a lot of paperwork. In the case of Yosef,
there apparently was a "paperwork reduction act". They rushed him through.
The Chofetz Chaim inquires as to what the Torah is teaching by telling us
this detail, that they rushed. The Chofetz Chaim says that we are being
taught an important lesson here. The lesson is that the salvation of G-d
comes in the blink of an eye. Sometimes a person finds himself in a
situation in which he cannot imagine how the situation is going to be
rectified, but a moment later the light appears at the end of the tunnel.
Yosef was in prison. He had no friends or connections in the country. Two
years earlier he had seen a potential way of getting out, but those hopes
were dashed when nothing became of his request to the Sar HaMashkim to
help him out. He must have been thinking to himself, "I am stuck in
prison. Nothing is happening and nothing is going to happen."
Suddenly, Yosef was speedily rushed out of the pit. G-d had decreed that
Yosef must remain in jail for two years, but once those two years were
over, he had to be out in the blink of an eye. That is the way G-d works.
Salvation comes in a flash.
All too often, people have terrible problems. They cannot imagine how these
terrible problems will ever be resolved. They need to realize that the
salvation of G-d comes in the blink of an eye.
There are so many times in life when salvation of G-d comes in the blink of
an eye. We can bang our heads against the wall and wail "What's going to be!
What's going to be!" But things suddenly turn around. That is why the Torah
emphasizes "they RUSHED him out of the pit". Things can turn around on a
dime.
What Gave The Brothers Cause To Celebrate?
Parsha Miketz contains the story of the full reunification of all the sons
of Yaakov. Yosef sat the brothers according to their chronological age. The
brothers were astonished. Yosef gave them all presents and gave Binyamin
(his only full brother) a present that was five times as great as what he
gave to the others. The narration concludes with the words "They drank and
they became intoxicated with him" [Bereshis 43:33-34].
Rashi comments that from the day that the brothers sold Yosef, neither he
nor they drank wine. This was the first time that any of the brothers
allowed themselves to drink wine since that tragic day.
However, the question needs to be asked, what kind of holiday was this for
the brothers? They did not know that they were reunited with Yosef. That did
not happen until Parshas VaYigash. Perhaps, we can understand why Yosef
would drink wine. He knew that it was the first time that the family was
together in so many years. But why were the brothers drinking wine? From
their perspective, it was still a situation of "Yosef is not here" [Bereshis
42:36].
The answer is that it was like a Yom Tov (holiday) for them because they saw
that they had grown as human beings. They had just witnessed their brother
Binyamin being given preferential treatment. He was given a present five
fold as great as their own. This was exactly like the situation that
triggered their resentment -- when Yaakov showed favoritism to Yosef. It
could have been a situation of "here we go again."
Each family has its own set of dynamics. There are certain things that set
off squabbles and harsh sibling interaction in every family. However, this
occasion was different. Despite the history of the dynamics, the brothers
were not resentful when Binyamin received five times as much. They were
sincerely happy for him. That was cause for celebration.
The successful conquering of one's baser inclinations is cause for
celebration. The discovery that "I can change for the better and not always
react in the same inappropriate manner I have always reacted to these
circumstances" is a reason to party. The brothers were no longer jealous of
one another. This was a Yom Tov for them. It was a justification to break
out the champagne, despite the fact that they had not taken a drink of wine
for decades!
Thanksgiving For The Troubles
We will conclude with an idea that finds a common thread in both the
Chanukah story and in Parshas Miketz.
The Al HaNisim prayer recited on Chanukah states that these days were
established for praise and thanksgiving. The Sefas Emes notes that Hallel
[praise] was established in commemoration of the victory that Hashem
provided for us. Hoda-ah [thanksgiving] was instituted for the gratitude we
must have even for the experience of living through all the traumatic events
that led up to the victory.
While this is a difficult level to achieve, a Jew should realize that when
he does have troubles and does experience suffering -- these too might
someday prove to be something to be thankful for. Eventually things will
hopefully improve and he will emerge from those troubles. At that time he
must give thanks to G-d not only for the cessation of the troubles, but even
for the original troubles themselves. Such is the nature of suffering.
Suffering itself is helpful for a person.
The experience was difficult. The Jews lived through catastrophic times.
They were spiritually devastated; all the Temple oil was defiled. But this
experience was also ultimately part of the story of deliverance and
something for which we need to be grateful.
While a person is in the midst of the troubles, it may not be realistic to
appreciate this. However, when the salvation from G-d eventually arrives, a
person must look back and be able to say "Now I understand everything." As
human beings, we are bound by time. We cannot always see and understand why
things are happening. With the passage of time however, things become
clearer.
Rabbi Zev Leff offers a beautiful insight. In Parshas Miketz, Yosef orders
the brothers to bring Binyamin. Yaakov does not want to let him go.
Eventually they are able to persuade Yaakov to allow Binyamin to accompany
them. They bring him before Yosef. There are trumped up charges. Yehudah
offers to have all the brothers become slaves to the Egyptian viceroy. Yosef
insists, however, that only Binyamin will be his prisoner and the rest of
the family may "return in peace to their father". This is the last thing
that the brothers want to see happen.
That is how Parshas Miketz ends. What is the resolution? The resolution
comes next week in Parshas VaYigash.
If we were dividing up the parshiyos, we would probably not end the parsha
in the middle of a story. What is this -- a series? "To find out what
happened to Binayamin..." Miketz leaves us sitting on the edge of our seats,
waiting in anticipation to know the end of the story. Why doesn't the Torah
tell us what happens?
The answer is that the Torah is teaching us a very important lesson: There
are sometimes in life we need to 'wait until next week'. Sometimes we need
to wait until next week and sometimes we need to wait until next year and
sometimes we need to wait until the next life. Things do not always become
abundantly clear, certainly not instantaneously. That is what this lesson is
about. That is why the climax of the story of Yosef and his brothers does
not end in Parshas Miketz as it logically should.
The Torah is sending us a message regarding how to deal with these types of
troubles. The answer is that sometimes we have to wait to see how things
will resolve themselves.
This write-up was adapted from the hashkafa portion of Rabbi Yissocher
Frand's Commuter Chavrusah Torah Tape series on the weekly Torah portion.
The complete list of halachic topics covered in this series for Parshas
Miketz are provided below:
Tape # 035 - Chanukah Issues
Tape # 077 - Prohibitions During Times of Crises
Tape # 126 - Dreams in Halacha and Hashkafa
Tape # 173 - Dreams in Halacha II
Tape # 219 - Chanukah Issues II
Tape # 263 - Women and Chanukah Candle Lighting
Tape # 309 - "Lo Sechanaim" Giving Gifts to Non-Jews
Tape # 353 - Chanukah and Hidur Mitzvah
Tape # 397 - Lighting Neiros in Shul; Other Chanukah Issues
Tape # 441 - Taanis Chalom
Tape # 485 - Miracle Products and Other Chanukah Issues
Tape # 529 - Ner Chanukah: Where, When, and Other Issues
Tape # 573 - The Silver Menorah and Other Chanukah Issues
Tape # 617 - The Bad Dream
Tape # 661 - Davening for the Welfare of the Government
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