The Book of Samuel:
The Wife of Pinchas
The next several classes focus on four women in the Book of I Samuel. While
the narrative of I Samuel itself follows the lives of three men - Samuel,
Saul and David - the women we will explore exert a significant influence over
the course of events and set important examples of feminine strength. The
accomplishment of each woman is unique in time, place and circumstance, yet
beneath this diversity runs a current that connects each to the other and to
Jewish women of all generations.
This first installment in our series concerns a figure referred to in I
Samuel as, "the wife of Pinchas." Pinchas - one of the leaders of his
generation - is a priest (Hebrew: "kohen") in the Temple. His brother,
Khofni, also serves as priest, while their elderly father, Eli, holds the
position of high priest ("kohen gadol") at the helm of the Jewish people.
Thus, the wife of Pinchas (who is also the daughter-in-law of Eli) is
related to such luminaries as indicate she must be exemplary in her own
right. Her character is worth examining, since its components persist as an
inheritance for today's Jewish woman.
I Samuel relates that Pinchas and Khofni die in battle against the
Philistines and that the enemy makes off with the ark holding the Torah:
"And the Philistines fought, and Israel was smitten, and they fled every man
to his tent; and there was a very great slaughter; for there fell of Israel
thirty thousand footmen. And the ark of God was taken; and the two sons of
Eli, Khofni and Pinkhas, were slain" (I Samuel, 4: 10-11).
Upon hearing of this disaster, Eli collapses and dies. The wife of Pinkhas,
in her ninth month of pregnancy, is informed she has lost her father-in-law,
her husband and her brother in law - and that the Philistines have absconded
with the ark which, as a dwelling for the Divine, had been a source of
strength for the Jewish army. The traumatic news induces in her labor and
"And his daughter-in-law, Pinchas' wife, was with child, near to be
delivered; and when she heard the tidings that the ark of God was taken, and
that her father-in-law and her husband were dead, she bowed herself and
brought forth; for her pains came suddenly upon her."
The midwives try to comfort the wife of Pinchas by informing her she has had
a son. She disregards them and chooses a name for her infant:
"And about the time of her death the women that stood by her said unto her:
'Fear not; for thou hast brought forth a son.' But she answered not, neither
did she regard it. And she named the child Ichabod..."
In Hebrew, Ichabod means, "no glory," or "where is the glory." Through this
name, the wife of Pinchas conveys her grief over the fact that, with the
abduction of the ark, the honor and glory of Torah have temporarily departed
On her deathbed, one might have expected the wife of Pinchas to be consumed
less with national tragedy and more with the loss of her family and the birth
of a son she will never know. To be sure, as would anyone, she is pained in
this regard. Her sorrow, however, is incorporated into the name Ichabod, and
as such becomes part of her profound anguish over the national tragedy that
has just taken place:
"And she named the child Ichabod, saying: 'The glory is departed from
Israel'; because the ark of God was taken, and because of her father-in-law
and her husband. And she said: 'The glory is departed from Israel; for the
ark of God is taken' " (I Samuel 4: 21-22).
For the wife of Pinchas, the ark of God is a point of convergence, within
which the deaths of Eli and Pinchas, and the birth of Ichabod, find deepest
expression. The text itself reinforces the idea of this "focal point," as it
becomes successively smaller in scope - moving from the panorama of the
battlefield, through the city gates, towards the very intimate moment of
birth, and ultimately to a portrait of one woman whose final words are,
"...the ark of God is taken."
The ark is known to contain the Written Torah, which includes the Ten
Commandments, and the Torah scroll dictated by God to Moses. The second
essential part of the Torah - that is, the Oral Torah - is said to have been
embodied by Eli and Pinchas, who were responsible for its transmission to
future generations. The wife of Pinchas understands that her father-in-law
and husband are living transmitters of Torah. As such, their deaths create a
depletion of national glory, a loss of leadership and a longing for the
physical and spiritual sustenance of Torah.
The wife of Pinchas remains steadfast in her clarity that Torah is the
lifeline of the Jewish nation, and that its dispossession amounts to no less
than catastrophe. She regards her family tragedy as a part of this national
loss and, through the name Ichabod, she establishes her newborn son as living
reminder to his people of their unique connection to the Divine.
Through the prism of Torah, the wife of Pinchas discerns what is everlasting
about her husband, her father-in-law and her child. While the loss of her
family no doubt causes personal pain, she reserves her deepest anguish for
what their loss means to the Jewish people. As living personifications of
Torah, Pinchas and Eli exemplified the spark of eternity in every Jew. The
name "Ichabod" elegizes them on this level.
The wife of Pinches teaches us to appreciate others, and ourselves, as
individuals with a potential for greatness beyond our perceived capabilities.
While we may not be able to relate to the magnitude of her tragedy, the
message of the wife of Pinchas is that, above and beyond physical existence,
life's most profound meaning lies in the pursuit of spiritual growth through
our relationship with the divine. Torah, itself, embodies this potential.
Its timelessness connects the wife of Pinchas to today's Jewish woman, while
its wisdom inspires us to live with a sense of life's highest purpose.
Women in Judaism, Copyright (c) 2002 by Mrs. Leah Kohn and Project Genesis, Inc.
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